Boyfriends for Girls (2 Viewers)

[Sammy2011]

I don't understand why some guys are so nervous around girls. I've talked to my guy friends and they explained (rather poorly, mind you), that they feel that girls are judging them all the time. This can't possibly be true!

And, talking for myself, if I'm looking at a guy...it means I'm looking at a guy. Personally, I start playing with my hair if I think he is cute.

 

[Shadowdude]

Of course girls are judging guys when they first see them... it's like the concept of those speed dating thingamajigs.

And guys also judge girls via appearance - so naturally, they think the same is happening to them.

 

[MrBrightside]

And, talking for myself, if I'm looking at a guy...it means I'm looking at a guy. Personally, I start playing with my hair is I think he is cute.

Dammmn, thats hawt! : D

 

[Omie Jay]

when i see an attractive girl i immediately start sweating

 

[Sammy2011]

So it is really true that guys are totally looks-based? Perhaps I'm just someone who hopes for the best in people, but I have always held a deep seated belief that not every guy would judge a book by its cover.

I understand why super attractive girls would get guys nervous, it's the same with super attractive guys and girls. I'm more of a girl-next-door/ surfer type, so maybe that it why I befriend guys easily without making them nervous.

And thanks, MrBrightside

 

[Omie Jay]

not necessarily looks based, but everyone has their own tastes.

the hottest chick ever could have the worst personality, which in turn would be a massive turn off =] but i spose guys who only want a wet penor wouldnt mind

 

[Shadowdude]

So it is really true that guys are totally looks-based? Perhaps I'm just someone who hopes for the best in people, but I have always held a deep seated belief that not every guy would judge a book by its cover.

I understand why super attractive girls would get guys nervous, it's the same with super attractive guys and girls. I'm more of a girl-next-door/ surfer type, so maybe that it why I befriend guys easily without making them nervous.

And thanks, MrBrightside

Guys are not totally looks based. They use it as... criteria to weed out girls. I think if a guy looks at someone he doesn't think looks half-bad, then they'd be quite content to date them.

I would love to be the first one to state that I only judge girls via personality and not on looks - because looks is something you are born with, and personality is something you can develop - but I can't escape my hormones.


Girl-next-door types are naturally friendly, that's why you befriend easily.

 

[Omie Jay]

so shadowdude you go out with http://media.photobucket.com/image/ugly girl/good_mate_jones/fugly2.jpg if she had an amazing personality?

 

[Shadowdude]

OMGWTF.

Hell no - my hormones would kick in. So I'm happy I have hormones. And of course that: "I would love to be the first one to state that I only judge girls via personality and not on looks - because looks is something you are born with, and personality is something you can develop - but I can't escape my hormones." only applies when choosing between attractive women =P


But uhh, right now, I wouldn't date that girl at all - I'm focusing on another one. She ticks all the boxes. She passed the 'physically attractive' criterion with flying colours.

 

[Omie Jay]

then DONT pretend you're some super perfect human who thinks they're a great person because they say they'll go out with anyone.

it's natural to be not drawn to people who arent good looking in your eyes

maybe someone in this world finds that lady good looking and would ask them out, good for them!

 

[Omie Jay]

choosing between attractive women HAH

 

[Shadowdude]

I was living in my dream world. Though I fear sometimes the only girl I'll be able to attract are girls like those as what you have pictured - my eccentricity and all... I mean, a list of TV shows I watch regularly shows I'm not normal =P

 

[Omie Jay]

lol define normal, who cares what shows you watch and what music you listen to etc

 

[Shadowdude]

Normal would be someone that adheres to the pack mentality or what is 'popular' or what is deemed so.

I think the shows I watch and what I listen to define me quite alot. Like, if you spend your days watching shows like.. Hot Seat or Letters and Numbers, you'll be assumed to be smarter than the person who watches say... Deal or No Deal or Minute to Win It.

If your favourite music comes from the Top 40 - you'll be seen as more normal than the person who listens to Estonian Indie Rock or German Pop - who may be seen as quite wierd.

 

[Absolutezero]

you'll be seen as more normal than the person who listens to Estonian Indie Rock or German Pop - who may be seen as quite wierd.

Hey, nothing wrong with Estonian Indie Rock.

 

[Shadowdude]

That's my thoughts. But other people aren't too receptive...

Eurovision, ftw =P

 

[MysteryGenius]

Normal would be someone that adheres to the pack mentality or what is 'popular' or what is deemed so.

I think the shows I watch and what I listen to define me quite alot. Like, if you spend your days watching shows like.. Hot Seat or Letters and Numbers, you'll be assumed to be smarter than the person who watches say... Deal or No Deal or Minute to Win It.

If your favourite music comes from the Top 40 - you'll be seen as more normal than the person who listens to Estonian Indie Rock or German Pop - who may be seen as quite wierd.

being normal is so... bland.

'normal' is overrated anyway
just be yourself and you'll find someone who'll appreciate you for it. screw everyone else!

 

[Shadowdude]

Someone who'll appreciate me for being myself... heh, I wish. I'm too eccentric for that, MG =P

 

[MysteryGenius]

she's out there somewhere! lol n who knows, maybe she's just as wacky as you

 

[Shadowdude]

Oh well, there is one particular girl I like - but she's perhaps too good for me. Deserves much better than me, at least. /melancholy