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by saving the first time pain from a relationship, by using ur friend.. cud also create that emotinal tie to the friend.. then ruin that friendship eh?
 

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ahh yes well id like to divorce the emotion from it , but the inevitability may be that in an effort to bypass this hiatus over 'Virginity' i mite stil succumb to the social construct (and wind up attatching more to the physical act) .. hmm.. i spose its situational .. have to chose the male carefully .. mab not a REAL close friend..
 

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<3 casual sex. <3 it oh so much. in fact all the sexy time ive gotten this year and last has been casual.
 

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everyone is reading into it too much.

dont know what to do with your virginity? first time is generally not that great for most. if youre one of those ppl that value ur virginity, then hold onto it. but if ur the type of person who doesnt really care/ doesnt consider the first time any more significant than any other time, then sex is sex, go enjoy it.

*everybodys freeeee to feel goood...* just do what u want
 

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chloe169 said:
everyone is reading into it too much.

dont know what to do with your virginity? first time is generally not that great for most. if youre one of those ppl that value ur virginity, then hold onto it. but if ur the type of person who doesnt really care/ doesnt consider the first time any more significant than any other time, then sex is sex, go enjoy it.

*everybodys freeeee to feel goood...* just do what u want
oh hello ;) If it isn't my favourite bi-princess.
 

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nooo dont rape women. rape me :eek:
p.s. don't you live in balmain or something? it says east in your sig
 

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stazi said:
nooo dont rape women. rape me :eek:
p.s. don't you live in balmain or something? it says east in your sig
nah, i live near maroubra beach.

ill only rape you if you wear suspenders.
 

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DEAL! p.s. shouldn't you be on msn or something.
back to the topic of casual sex:
My first time was casual and I regreted it for ages and ages. Then I realised that it's just sex. Love and sex are completely seperate (although we've been conditioned to link the two).
 

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The first time I had casual it was break up sex, and it was the best I've ever had.

The end.
 

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Can't say I'm a huge fan of casual. But if you can successfully disconnect emotions from the act itself, then I don't see a problem. Sex is only as meaningful as you want it to be.
 

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That said, I do regret some things I've done. I think everyone makes some foolish decisions. We're young, we're stupid, we do stupid things. But, you know, there's no point in regretting these things as something you should never have done. Just take them as lessons learnt.
 

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casual sex is the normal way of life now days i recon!!!!
so of course casual sex!!!!

i dont think there are n e virgins by the age of 20 n e more now days
there is actually a word in japanese for a girl who reaches the age of 20 and is still a virgin ! lol
 

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Hanzo said:
casual sex is the normal way of life now days i recon!!!!
so of course casual sex!!!!

i dont think there are n e virgins by the age of 20 n e more now days
there is actually a word in japanese for a girl who reaches the age of 20 and is still a virgin ! lol
Um, yes there are. Probably more than you realise. And I fail to see why there's a problem with that, or why it's somehow humourous. Casual sex isn't everybody's cup of tea, and that's entirely understandable.
 

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Hanzo said:
casual sex is the normal way of life now days i recon!!!!
so of course casual sex!!!!

i dont think there are n e virgins by the age of 20 n e more now days
there is actually a word in japanese for a girl who reaches the age of 20 and is still a virgin ! lol
Yeah, lundy is right, people are more conservative then you take them for.
 
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The thing is, the concept of casual sex in itself doesn't bother me at all - it's just that this guy is obviously a huge asshole who wants to take advantage of her.
 

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Hanzo said:
there is actually a word in japanese for a girl who reaches the age of 20 and is still a virgin ! lol
Yeah we have one to, ugly.

Thanks for playing, our language wins. Kthnxbi.
 

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