Women like cock more than most guys do, so if u like hanging out with women u like hanging around with cock eating faggots.
But arent u masturbating over women whilst surrounded by other men. Therefore, by your logic you enjoying pulling your cock in the presence of other cock-pullers over cock-eating faggots. Theres a lot more 'cock' in that equation in comparison to someone who is just having sex with a women.
Therefore its more gay to have communal masturabtion with other men over women rather then simply masturbating or having sex with a woman in private. Based on your logic of course.
But i guess, in the end- is up 2 u.