I think in this day and age, its rather hard to have sex after marriage. This doesnt mean that there are people who are waiting (in fact, half of my friends feel this). But today's youth are curiuos and are not afraid to try new things. A relationship should not be based soley on sex, but rather love and trust. As many people have said before, sex is merely a bonus to the relationship. If both parties love each other, then the love should be out of their partner, not sex. My best friend told me that you know if its true love, if they can be a virign forever being with you