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withoutaface

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Flirting doesn't have to be about picking up, just making the other person feel good about themselves.
 

Jago

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flirting is addictive...it's a whole love/hate thing in it for me
 

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Flirting can just be about having fun, which makes it hard when one person is just doing to have fun whereas the other has different intentions.
 

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lol i think i've grown to not trust a word a girl says.
 

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~*HSC 4 life*~ said:
the bad thing is, that people have different ideas of what 'flirting' is...and sometimes you can be talkign to a guya nd say something, and he'll interpret it as you want him, and then makes a move on you...has happened to me before :p
dittoooooooooooooooooo
 

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nonsense, if you set your expections low then you're bound to enjoy whatever eventuates.

personally i flirt for a number of reasons, and thus with a number of 'goals' in mind.
(a) to test myself, to see how far i can emotionally get with a new and different type of girl with or without the intention of sustaining any sort of friendship.
(b) to test myself, to see how far i can physically get with a new and different type of girl with or without the intention of it reoccuring.
(c) all of the above (i.e. relationship)

i'd say that general concept would apply to any guy.

i use (a) and (c) more than anything else... i'm not much of a 'user'... hell, i'm hardly into sex at all unless i have a girlfriend at the time..... dont know what's wrong with me.


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HSC 5 Life is right.... but this works on both ways... has happened to me before. we often see things how we want to see them, not how they are meant/
 
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meh, i hate when flirting gets out of hands.
making you seem desperate :s
 

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Winston said:
lol i think i've grown to not trust a word a girl says.
waay ahead of ya in that department.

dark`secrets said:
meh, i hate when flirting gets out of hands.
making you seem desperate :s

ahem brother (or sista). That's why you gotta practice ;)
 

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Well flirting can get really annoying for a guy, esp if ur with some1 and girls u don't like flirt audaciously with you. As a guy flirting is really easy - it's just about making a girl feel comfortable in ur presense, I mean all you have to do is to tell them how good they look and take an interest in what they are saying - showing ur listneing. The best way to show it is just for fun is to invite others into the conversation.
 

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dark`secrets said:
meh, i hate when flirting gets out of hands.
making you seem desperate :s
Yeah but some people always says "it's only a joke you know that right?"
i hate it when they say that, like they break the flirting up, i mean no shit sherlock, i just think that internet flirting shouldn't even be taken seriously, i know some people do, they get all sexcited looking at the history over and over again with what was said, some poor dude at school did that haha... and always asked me "i think she likes me" lol
 

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tWiStEdD said:
nonsense, if you set your expections low then you're bound to enjoy whatever eventuates.
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA oh dear
 

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i still never got added for them flirtin lessons by hsc4life
 

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librariver said:
Oh...cheer up! You just need practice and know when to say
something at the right time.
I guess you just need to get in touch with your sexxy side and
gain some courage to flirt.


:) hehehe i love being sexy! its so much fun ;)
 

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