Fuck You Society!!! I Win This Round! (1 Viewer)

ur_inner_child

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I met someone on Saturday. Who was everything I want in looks and personality. My type, materialised. We hooked up and long story short, today is the 3rd day, he hadn't called me yet. He's meant to call me by 3 days, and I aaaaaaached.

Against all the He's Just Not That Into You and other fuckwit books and against all girlfriend advice, I WAS PURELY HONEST WITH WHAT I WANTED.

SO I CALLED HIM

I refused to believe that EVEN THOUGH I found someone who amazed me in such a way, culture and society was telling me that I should sit still and wait for him to call me. And if he doesn't, that's it.

NOW I'm going on a date with him on Saturday night BECAUSE I DIDN'T LET THE OPPORTUNITY SLIDE RIGHT BY ME BECAUSE A FUCKING GIRLY MOVIE TOLD ME NOT TO CALL HIM.

Just do what you want to do.
Don't play games or play hard to get or whatever. You want what you want, don't fuck it up by being dishonest about it.

That's my new take on it.
 

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*standing ovation*

See girls, read, and learn.
 

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What is all this fucking equality bullshit mean really when our culture still tells women that the right way to start dating someone (even if he was PERFECT and YOUR TYPE of guy) that we simply do NOTHING ABOUT IT!?!? And wait by the phone???

I simply... could not let this guy slide out of my life.
 

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Congratulations!

I've kinda figured over the past couple of weeks that this is actually true, and its actually okay to break the rules and make a move first.

It paid off and i don't regret it....good luck for Saturday!
 

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So I guess I'll see you Saturday then, I'm so happy you feel this way about me!
 

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Is the first post a joke or something

I really hope it is

Good luck with mr right either way
 

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congrats =P
they should make this into a feel good movie where it sticks it to the 'gender roles'
 

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Looks like the guy won to me. Kidding, Good job .
 

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are there people who actually take the advice of those dumb books about relationships and dating? :s
 

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love this thread. good on you and good luck =]].
 

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I really do hope this guy is on bos haha.

Nah well done. Never take my advice ever hahahhaah.
 

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yeah a mate of mine was like 'dood i picked up a girl, when shuld i call her? 2-3 days?'

im like lulz do whenever u fuckwit.
 

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The fuck! Girls still believe only the guys are allowed to be the first to call?

On your date are you going to cook him dinner, iron his shirt and make babies?
 

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We've come to far as a society for 'wait for him' to still be applicable. Good job OP.
 

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i hate girls who follow those stupid "rules" and try not to call.

so many wasted opportunities
 

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