guy problems (1 Viewer)

[emmadilemma88]

ok so this guy at work, i kinda like him. apparently he usd to like me heaps but now he has a gf, he admitted he used to like me, and he still talks to me heaps and we're good friends, but its really hard to read him. so i cant tell if he likes me still cause he does flirt with me but yea, i dunno...? any suggestions?

 

[Nakashima]

You can't make assumptions. Just wait and see if anything happens. If not and you're desperate, tell him.

 

[kazan]

he probably still likes u but gave up waiting.

if he has a girlfriend now
leave it
you'll only cause problems

 

[Born Dancer]

agreed. he has a gf now.
you shouldnt meddle with that.
assumptions are a baaaad bad thing

 

[piccaninny]

just wait and see, like he can have g/f today tomorrow he might be single. you never know.

 

[litany]

Like a few people have already mentioned - assumptions are bad. While he still has a girlfriend, staying good friends seems like the best option; whether or not he still likes you is irrelevant.

That is, of course, if you want to follow what I personally think of as an ethical approach to it.

If you want to get him, waiting it out seems the best approach.

 

[Bendent]

maybe you should ignore him and see if that helps.

 

[sunjet]

No don't do the above.

 

[tlodg]

he likes your attention.

 

[AsyLum]

You're just friends. Quit while you're ahead. Otherwise get played.

 

[Kate090]

Yes Dont Meddle it not good. and just think if he cheats on ur gf with u wats going to stop him cheatin when and if u finally did get in a relationship... if u do meddle dont get caught

 

[Forbidden.]

There are many guys out there who would be interested, just move on or you can be played if you still want to be attached to him when you can't be bothered.

 

[RingerINC]

I say hit it and quit it...

But i frequent that saying.

 

[kazan]

i am



wait.... no im not


my girlfriend and me talk everyday
but its not clingy

 

[*hopeful*]

yuck i cant stand clingy, guys or friends or anyone

 

[blueeyesguy]

maybe you should ignore him and see if that helps.

I hope youre being sarcastic lol because this is why alot of guys dont understand teenage girls they attempt to act unintrested and the guy moves on ive never understood why girls do this. anyway as for the question id say dont make a move because if you were in his gf's shoes and your bf cheated on you with another girl how would you feel.Another words you can look but not touch even if he is flirting with you hope ive helped even if only slightly

 

[emmadilemma88]

i am not being clingy i mean we never went out i just wanna know your thoughts, if i should just get over it. like i respect the fact he has a gf now but i think he may still like me as we are close mates and we flirt al the time, so yea. im not being clingy,

 

[blueeyesguy]

i am not being clingy i mean we never went out i just wanna know your thoughts, if i should just get over it. like i respect the fact he has a gf now but i think he may still like me as we are close mates and we flirt al the time, so yea. im not being clingy,

Even if he likes you than he assumeably likes his gf more otherwise he wouldnt be going out with her lol.One question is there no other single guys within 20kms of where you live?? Ill just say this "there's plently more fish in the sea"

 

[ane_st]

I was in a situation like you... Kinda had to get over it cause yea he prob won't end up leaving her....

 

[glitterfairy]

i am not being clingy i mean we never went out i just wanna know your thoughts, if i should just get over it. like i respect the fact he has a gf now but i think he may still like me as we are close mates and we flirt al the time, so yea. im not being clingy,

Move on. He has a girlfriend.

You can still be close friends, once you get over the 'aww but... everything will work out the way I want it to if I flirt a little more' mindset (this is a recipe for disaster). And it's NEVER a good idea to flirt with taken guys - how is that 'respecting' the fact he has a girlfriend? How would you feel if you were that girlfriend?

If he still has feelings for you he will break up with this girl to be with you. Anything else is him trying to be a player. Don't encourage it.