Interesting theory - What's the point of dating someone if you don't find them physically atrractive?!
My "preliminary boyfriend" was the ugliest guy on Earth, but with the heart of a Saint. Everyone made fun of him etc etc, but he didn't care - he lived his own old-fashioned way. I was a young 13 year old when he was 15 - we just across the road from school for a drink - no alcohol lol.
I was just taken by the attention and didn't take pride in the relationship itself of course...but a few months later I really did find my first boyfriend and left the Beginner's Course in Male Relations LOL. Later on and now I only date guys who I think are passable. lol.
He's the nicest guy on Earth - he takes you seriously, he's just so dependable - but he's a mix - Irish with Viet - the combo made him look hideous but his sister one of the hottest Eurasians in my grade.
Everyone thought he was ugly...but now he's found his dream girl, 4 years older than him - Hope this lasts