How Far, How Fast (1 Viewer)

[Spanish_Guy]

This is just a general topic i suppose.
Get an idea, h0w far every0ne goes at what pace...

for instance h0w long is it til first real make out, feelin up.. etc etc..until suppose sex.

thanks

 

[lengy]

10 days.

 

[ObjectsInSpace]

This is just a general topic i suppose.
Get an idea, h0w far every0ne goes at what pace...

for instance h0w long is it til first real make out, feelin up.. etc etc..until suppose sex.

thanks

One of the virtues of not being puritanical about sex is not having to feel guilty afterwards.

Depends what you want, really. If you're after something serious, the 'right here, right now' approach is going to get you nothing but a reputation as a creep. Of course, you could still get that reputation if you're only looking for a one-night stand if you find someone who is looking for something different. So it largely depends on who you're with and, to a lesser extent, what you're looking for. There's no set answer; I can't tell you "this will happen after x days" and then "this will happen after y days" because everyone is different.

 

[Spanish_Guy]

yes i agree.
everyone is different
every0ne has different relationships etc etc

but 0verall.. there is kinda a rough idea 0f how things generally happen.
and this is talkin abuot a serious kinda 0f relationship.

 

[Serius]

has to be a troll... no one else uses zero to consistently replace o.

but the answer is typically one night

 

[Antler]

Yep if you aren't inside her 1 day after you meet it's clearly not meant to be, it's the rules.

 

[ObjectsInSpace]

but 0verall.. there is kinda a rough idea 0f how things generally happen.
and this is talkin abuot a serious kinda 0f relationship.

No. I know of people who propose to their girlfriends after just six months, while other people who are just like them take considerably longer. I'm not saying you'll end up proposing, but that's ultimately where a serious relationship can end up, and if some people take six months to get there while others take much longer, obviously there is no framework for when you can expect things to happen. Sometimes people have one-night stands and end up in a relationship afterwards, other times it's a while before two people come to have sex.

 

[hsc=suicide]

sex when you ACTUALLY know their name, and who they are.

 

[ObjectsInSpace]

Stupid question for spanish guy: why do you need to use the zero digit as opposed to a letter 'o' every single time?

 

[Spanish_Guy]

answer t0 ur silly question

is because its a bad habbit.. dunn0 why..

would u like me to stop ??

doesnt really bother me either way.

 

[withoutaface]

Y34h 9uy5 134v3 h1m 410n3, typ1n9 w1th numb3r5 15 k3w1.

 

[PrettyVacant]

Don't be selfish and stop her from getting immunisation from Cervical Cancer! Answer: After the vaccine.

 

[withoutaface]

Don't be selfish and stop her from getting immunisation from Cervical Cancer! Answer: After the vaccine.

What if I like my women dead from preventable STI's?

 

[ObjectsInSpace]

Y34h 9uy5 134v3 h1m 410n3, typ1n9 w1th numb3r5 15 k3w1.

Is it bad that what you said made perfect sense to me?

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

i guess it depends how willing each person is willing to go...............and how much your comfortable with the person..

personally i dont have a time limit i go with the flow........

first time i had sex with my ex i waited 10months
first time i hooked up with the guy im seeing now, his head was already in between my legs............
i think it depends on the person, how long youve known them for.......
going on a first date with a friend youve known for a while, and going on a blind date.. and kissing both those people at the end of the date is on a wide spectrum i reckon.....


lol funny yes indeed.......
but generally.. i like to take the feeling up and sex things slow...i.e dont sleep on the first date etc...

 

[iamsickofyear12]

At this point the time it takes to get somewhere where we could have sex is plenty long enough for me.

 

[Season]

sex when you ACTUALLY know their name, and who they are.

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but it varies on everyone with age, and experience levels and course how much you are attracted to them and the situation course. If you are out for a summer fling, things tend to move much faster but something more longterm you'd want to take it slower. [/FONT]

 

[sassygirl]

i think it depends on the grps th@ u hang out with. ihang with 4 or 5 different grps, and each one is really different. they shape how u are thinking and feeling at the time. one grp would be repulsed at even having sex rolleyes: but true) and another wouldnt be "together" unless they had had sex with the person. so i think the answer has something to do with the ppl around u.

and spanish guy- the numbers thing is wierd.

 

[Spanish_Guy]

hmm offtopic...

me using the number '0' as a O... is similar to you using '@' as "at"

meh, weird..go figure