How to tell/show/hint to a guy you like him. (1 Viewer)

[BlueCatBulletCD]

You need to drop subtle hints.

Like when you pass another couple say: "wow look at that couple, I wish I had a BF" and then look him in the eyes and smile.

Or invite him to dinner with your parents, and when your parents start making out say, "awww".

If he's intersted in you he will then tell you. If he isn't interested, he will ask to go to the bathroom but then leg it to his car and you'll never see him again.

 

[Taketheatrain]

You need to drop subtle hints.

Like when you pass another couple say: "wow look at that couple, I wish I had a BF" and then look him in the eyes and smile.

Or invite him to dinner with your parents, and when your parents start making out say, "awww".

If he's intersted in you he will then tell you. If he isn't interested, he will ask to go to the bathroom but then leg it to his car and you'll never see him again.

What kind of parents do that in front of visitors???

 

[Taketheatrain]

Make physical contact with him, like rub his arms. ARMS, NOT ARSE.

 

[stampede]

find a bench in a park, around dusk, sit him down and ask him wat he thinks of you, analyse his reply (including behaviour) and then stare at each other for what seems like an eternity before slowly tilting your heads sideways as you both come in closer for your first kiss






then go home and make babbys

 

[emmcyclopedia]

You need to drop subtle hints.

Like when you pass another couple say: "wow look at that couple, I wish I had a BF" and then look him in the eyes and smile.

Or invite him to dinner with your parents, and when your parents start making out say, "awww".

If he's intersted in you he will then tell you. If he isn't interested, he will ask to go to the bathroom but then leg it to his car and you'll never see him again.

Sounds a bit desperate, no? lol.

Yeah, as prev post said, "rub his arms" or whatever you'd feel comfortable with (preferably not sexual, you don't want to come across as an easy slut, lol)

Physical contact. Don't be desperate. Be direct. They're sometimes slow to catch on. And far out, don't let it drag on or he'll think that's just the norm for your friendship, with the subtle flirting and all. Don't wait too long, just come out with it. And it doesn't have to be a big deal - just make a comment, leave it open for him to do what he wants with it.

E.g. You: "I love your honesty... it's a quality I find really attractive in a guy"
Him:
a) "Yay, lets get married"
b) "Wtf...?"

lol, ok, so his response probably won't be like that. But just cut to the chase. Less deliberation and more initiation is what's important imo.

 

[s-p-a-c-e-d]

Maybe women don't like men who seem to be potential mass murderers. Just sayin.

i guess. just all this juvenile "play him hot and cold" bs is pissing me off.

 

[Taketheatrain]

i guess. just all this juvenile "play him hot and cold" bs is pissing me off.

Kids. We live and we learn

 

[red-butterfly]

lol!!!

 

[latvia]

1.) Don't talk about yourself all the time. Focus on understanding him more..and listening actively as he speaks. If a guy talks about himself all the time, I would assume he does not like me that way.

2.) Smile with your eyes when you talk to him (although that should come naturally. Shouldn't have been enacted).

3.) Laugh at his jokes.

 

[MonkEE]

Just pinch him on the arse really hard.

 

[zaxmacks]

take pictures of yourself in compromising positions and send them to him in an email.

I agree with this guy.

 

[Guesss]

You need to drop subtle hints.

Like when you pass another couple say: "wow look at that couple, I wish I had a BF" and then look him in the eyes and smile.

Or invite him to dinner with your parents, and when your parents start making out say, "awww".

If he's intersted in you he will then tell you. If he isn't interested, he will ask to go to the bathroom but then leg it to his car and you'll never see him again.

hehehe. Maybe i'd say something like "ohh they look like such a cute couple" *eyelids flutter* lol. Then smile/look into eyes? Thanks for that one.

OMG. I dont know what yur rents do in front of yu, but mine would no way in hell do that? :O

lol. The dinner with family wud be a bit akward for him dnt u think? Especially if we r just friends? *for now* lol.

find a bench in a park, around dusk, sit him down and ask him wat he thinks of you, analyse his reply (including behaviour) and then stare at each other for what seems like an eternity before slowly tilting your heads sideways as you both come in closer for your first kiss

then go home and make babbys

OMG. That sounds so romantic.

PS: Doesnt asking a guy what he thinks of yu seem a bit weirdly too direct?
I mean he's told me he thinks im mature for my age and stuff. *this comment i luv, cause it seems to lessen the age gap*

1.) Don't talk about yourself all the time. Focus on understanding him more..and listening actively as he speaks. If a guy talks about himself all the time, I would assume he does not like me that way.

2.) Smile with your eyes when you talk to him (although that should come naturally. Shouldn't have been enacted).

3.) Laugh at his jokes.

Yeh see i try to get him to talk about himself but he doesnt blab on and on about himself. Our convos are more full of laughs/srs talk/laughs/stories etc its pretty relaxed.

Yeh number (2) This is what i do, unintentionally i believe.

(3) Yes always. Its kinda hard to hold back. + he laughs at my jks too

 

[violentdelights]

Honestly, you can't really plan these things. They just fall in place a lot of the time.

 

[Guesss]

ye i guess so.

 

[Omnidragon]

Just ask to go up to his place. Or ask him to come over after you've hung around for a night. Or sms him to see if he wants to take relationship to next stage. It's not that hard seriously. Some of you kids make it sound some corny.

If you ask to go up to a guy's house for a coffee at night or whatever it's pretty obvious what you're suggesting.

I would definitely not take any of this corny advice.

 

[x.christina]

Honestly, you can't really plan these things. They just fall in place a lot of the time.

true that

 

[Rivenscyr]

hey all.
theres a girl that works near my shop and i see her all the time.
i acctually have no idea how to approach her..

hellppp :/

 

[Graney]

just go up t o her and say hey bby do u root

 

[BlueCatBulletCD]

Give em a wink. If they look digusted, GET OUTTA THERE!!

If they smile, you're in!

 

[x.christina]

just go up t o her and say hey bby do u root

<3

(if you're referring to what i think you are referring to)