missed opportunities ?!?! (1 Viewer)

[mmmmmmmmaaaaaaa]

have personally never heard of anyone who got .95 & had a romantic relationship but i know a few who got ~.8, .85 & broke up during/before hsc as well as a situationship where they got rly high 99s

that's a really small demographic which you can't really learn much from

 

[xoNat]

dw. gfs/bfs= -5 atar pts.

Worth it

 

[AsuTeksu]

relationships fuck with ur studies period standing by this forever, from experience

idk how people esp young people balance relationships and other major life priorities I guess people like that are just mature

i just adopt the mindset of "but i cut people out, like tags on my clothing" #conangray
at this point, i've been burned, abused and used by so many people that IF people try to do it to me again, i don't give a fuh
i think it's up to the person to let relationships mess with them

 

[AsuTeksu]

OH souli forgot her password

there's no way

 

[xoNat]

there's no way

Way, and the password was the same as the email's password (so she can't recover her acc) so now she's tryna find it lmaooo poor girl

 

[AsuTeksu]

Way, and the password was the same as the email's password so now she's tryna find it lmaooo poor girl

so she doesn't have access to her email either-

 

[xoNat]

so she doesn't have access to her email either-

Yeah

 

[Average Boreduser]

Way, and the password was the same as the email so now she's tryna find it lmaooo poor girl

Vivid example as to why everyone should just use one password for everyhting. even my friends can access my bank acc now

 

[totally_screwed]

i think it's up to the person to let relationships mess with them

yeah this
ik I only have myself to blame its just so icky looking back and realising what it all did to me

 

[xoNat]

Vivid example as to why everyone should just use one password for everyhting. even my friends can access my bank acc now

Please change the important ones

 

[Average Boreduser]

yeah this
ik I only have myself to blame its just so icky looking back and realising what it all did to me

u had a relationship?

 

[totally_screwed]

u had a relationship?

let's focus on op not me

 

[Average Boreduser]

Please change the important ones

nah it was kinda my fault tbf. my email signature is my password, and another thing that may have helped them was that I thought it would be funny to send them my card number and cvc

 

[Aeonium]

that's a really small demographic which you can't really learn much from

very close people to me; they kinda dragged eachother's atar down (there are also other examples but i don't feel good mentioning them)
you should provide some examples bcz of the only '23 couples i've seen, they didn't do that well (they were selective skl)
it's kinda implicit tho like relationships take up a lot of time & trying to maintain a good one during hsc takes a decent chunk away from everything else but ig you could study together???

 

[xoNat]

have you guys ever had that person where it seemed like missed opportunities? im still hung up on mine and i dont know how to move past properly
i ended mine in such a stupid way but i felt it was right because we were still young. if anyone has any tips to help please and thank you

also feel free to dump ur stories on here too, i wanna hear the similarities and differences lmao

Do you still talk to them?

 

[AsuTeksu]

Yeah

Tell her I say hi then

yeah this
ik I only have myself to blame its just so icky looking back and realising what it all did to me

I think initially, you can't be too hard on yourself. I wasn't always so resilient. I went through every single toxic group in my grade and that's what made me who I am; it didn't come straight away.

I guess you just have to hope that from all of it, you become a better person, learn, and make sure it doesn't all happen again.

 

[Average Boreduser]

let's focus on op not me

was it @Bored of studying or @Bronx?

 

[companionbby]

let's focus on op not me

hey i said this threads for everyone, this is a community thing lmao

 

[AsuTeksu]

it's kinda implicit tho like relationships take up a lot of time & trying to maintain a good one during hsc takes a decent chunk away from everything else but ig you could study together???

It depends... If your partner is understanding of the time requirements that come with HSC and you're both aware of the commitments you have, other than each other, then it doesn't take up as much time.

I think it's more draining and time consuming when your partner fails to understand your situation and expects you to give your full attention 24/7.

If they are a good partner, they'll want what is best for you and what will help you achieve your goals, whether that's a 60 ATAR or a 99.95 ATAR.

 

[companionbby]

Do you still talk to them?

not properly but we still acknowledge each other if we walk past you know? like simply wave and whatnot