Salima said:
Anyway, so my friend told me that he saw a man being pleasured by a woman in the genital region (you know what i'm talking bout but i don't like the way people here say it so i'm describing it this way, the other way seems so grotesque)...and then they saw a woman with her shirt off, aagin pleasuring a man by having her breasts naked, but he didn't take his shirt off, only her. Everyone was extremely discussed. Most of this would be under the influence of alchohol. Discusting hting.
You felt disgusted. How does that make it wrong per se? Sure it should be done in private, but aside from that, what is wrong with it?
Salima said:
Now this is why I wear hijab, and not mini skirts where men can easily place htere hadns up them! I wear full clothing, I am still stylish mind you. If you ask me there is more posssiblities in the more clothing you wear.
You're hanging around the wrong men.
Salima said:
As Riqtay said, the idea is to keep both man and woman chaste.
But
why? You fail time and time again to show what is wrong with having sex out of marriage.
Salima said:
This is also the reason for lettign a man marry more than one wife, for man's lusts goes beyonds a woamns I think and desires always more than he can have, as reading memouirs of a geisha has taught me!
Where is your proof of this claim?
Memoirs of a Geisha was not a medical or scientific source the last time I checked.
Salima said:
A woman should never subject herself to a man as those woman did on the new years eve celebrations as I described.
If you mean in public, then I agree. If you mean at all, then I would ask you why? You give no reason for such a claim.
Salima said:
This is more slavery and oppression than anything islam could ever offer to a woman.
You do realise that men give back too. Oral sex goes both ways.
