Originally Posted by HayleeKate
Please dont assume my blase approach to ext 2 maths carries into all subjects... I do understand the concept of hardwork, in all subjects other than this course. So please, dont judge me by your reading of my one post concerning one unit of my HSC.
firstly, it's my fault for not making myself clear in my last post, but i did not assume your approach carries into all other subjects. simply because i did not explicitly say "maths ext 2 only" does not mean YOU have to ASSUME that i generalise your slack approach to maths ext2 into all other areas of your study.
secondly, i judge you AS MUCH AS you judge your fellow classmates, who put in the hard yards only not to reap the fruits of their efforts. you publicly vilify those who study hard for their lack of result and label them without reason or base based on YOUR judgement and opinions of them:
Of course, if you're Male Y, you dont work, your parents make you breakfast in bed every morning, you have no friends nor social life, and all you do is study [specific reference to such a male at my school]
surely you do not stalk them 24/7 to be able to know these details of their everyday life??? in other words, this is only your opinion of who you THINK they are and what lives they lead.
you judge others without expecting others to judge you? aren't you being a bit hypocritical?
Originally Posted by HayleeKate
Honestly, I feel your statement was ridiculous.. There's simply no need to attack someone for saying "Obviously you need to do some work [to do well in the HSC]...
firstly, my purpose was NOT to attack YOU, it's to attack what you said. and i was not even attacking that simple sentence alone, it was only an example. it's the combination of your 'as-a-matter-of-fact' attitude with your rhetoric that is the problem, and that was what i was addressing.
secondly, this feeling between what you felt about my statement and what i feel about your latest post is mutual.
Originally Posted by HayleeKate
And as for that not being attack on me? By telling me I dont deserve my genetic predisposition for mathematics..
DO NOT TELL ME I DO NOT DESERVE THIS...
don't put words into other ppl's mouth... as a public speaker i though you'd have been familiar with that. for your information, if you re-read my previous post, you'll realise that i did not say "you do not deserve your natural mathematical ability"... what i said was:
truth is, they probably deserve this "natural ability" of yours more than you do.
meaning that YES, you deserve your natural ability. BUT, the ones who work their asses off probably deserve it MORE.
and i'm not ever going to retract that, because i KNOW that is a fair statement to make.
Originally Posted by HayleeKate
If you seriously meant the last lines of your post: If you feel that is not an offensive thing to say to someone, you must be a real f**kwit of a person...
taking offense is a conscious choice of yours. whether or not you think i was purposefully attacking and trying to offend you or not, despite my assurance that i was not, is totally up to you.
just don't use it as an excuse to feel sorry for yourself. there are plenty more ppl in worse situations than you have experienced while as the same time not as 'endowed' as you are, and there will be more in the future.
and once again i offer my assurance that i harbour no malice or contempt against you as a person... only against the things you say, and the attitude with which you say it. whether you believe me or not is, once again, entirely up to you.