Parents?-Overreactive (1 Viewer)

[3p1c f41lur3]

MY Parents are overreacting to MY HSC and Asking OTHER PEOPLE'S PARENT FOR ADVISE... Then they come home and bitch about how some of their friends kids got whatever UAI and then they bitch and moan even moar about me! Since I have a brother that did poorly to HSC now they putting the pressure on ME... Rather irritating. I KNOW that they CARE... but its too much:mad1:. Are all parents like this?

 

[cassieagill]

yea my sister got an ENTER of 91.5 and my rents expect me to do better than her...not happening lol, but just tell them your doing your best...i suppose thats all you can do, tell them their pressure is negatively affecting your studies

 

[Uncle]

Your HSC.
Your way.
You are doing your own HSC, no one else is doing it for you.

Further explanation to parents, guardians and superiors is best complimented with this video:

[youtube]2AaElp-mimg[/youtube]

 

[wixxy2348]

Unless you bring it up with them, they're going to think that the pressure they're putting on you is acceptable.
If you want them to stop, you need to communicate that with them.

 

[duckcowhybrid]

Yeah my parents do like comparisons. I have to get over 99.75 =D, since my mum's friend's daughter got 99.75 and she went to NSG, so because I'm in Ruse I must be better.

 

[hollaholla]

what nationality

 

[ninetypercent]

yeh, all parents are like that... It's actually better than having parents that don't care about your education.

 

[Dumbledore]

my parents won't rest till i get tutoring for ALL my subjects including 3 seperate tutors for english. its such a pain. they even said they'd give me $5000 if i get over 99 which is basically immpossible for me.

they make constant comments like, what are u gonna do when u fail the HSC to try and get me to work harder

 

[lyounamu]

my parents are kinda like that but then again, I don't give a shit.

 

[ajay098]

my parents won't rest till i get tutoring for ALL my subjects including 3 seperate tutors for english. its such a pain. they even said they'd give me $5000 if i get over 99 which is basically immpossible for me.

they make constant comments like, what are u gonna do when u fail the HSC to try and get me to work harder

omg...dont u ever feel tired of studying? ur parents need to take a chill pill and calm down and understand that there are other pathways in life...university is not the ultimate goal in life...

i heard this on the news - some parent even bribe the teacher to get the exam paper and then get a group of uni students to write their son's reponses and dictate it thru an ear piece to their son during the exam. they ended up in jail ....

 

[samthebear]

Your HSC.
Your way.
You are doing your own HSC, no one else is doing it for you.

Further explanation to parents, guardians and superiors is best complimented with this video:

[youtube]2AaElp-mimg[/youtube]

This. glad i'm allowed to do the HSC my way. i am always forever grateful for my parents *thanks God* gl man. try talking to them about it. Communication solves most issues =]

 

[d3vilz]

yep my parents do that as well.

 

[Aerath]

yeh, all parents are like that... It's actually better than having parents that don't care about your education.

What he/she said.

 

[Tully B.]

My mum and dad are polar opposite; my Dad heaves on the pressure, referring often to the considerable school fees that he pays, while my mum is anxious for me to be relaxed, and would rather that I fail then stress out. They're divorced, and I have a half-week, half-week arrangement going, which makes my own feelings towards the HSC rather complicated...

 

[Deer]

My mum doesn't really care, she's happy that I've just finished high school, haha, anything else is a bonus XD
I put the pressure on myself.

 

[Divinity_]

A friend of mine once said:

if i get under 99.4

my dad aint payin for uni

 

[3p1c f41lur3]

well if i dont get a 90+ me parents are probably gonna verbally abuse me for life and condemn me because im not a genius:burn:

 

[lyounamu]

well if i dont get a 90+ me parents are probably gonna verbally abuse me for life and condemn me because im not a genius:burn:

dw mate, you can reach there with hard work this hol. =)

 

[3p1c f41lur3]

as i mentioned a lil while ago, my parents are pressuring me bcuz my bro stuffed up. Nowadays, they are attacking him via psychosocial means...In another word, threatening him that they will kick him outta teh house, mocking how immature he is (he is 19 and he acts like a 9 yo uhoh: Poor me! I have to put up with his crap for another 50 years!)). In conclusion, Being Asian is not that much of a good thing ='(

 

[raniya]

well u c mi parents r like constently towering on mi hw i shud stoppp doin everythin else n JST concentrate on mi hsc.... well at times it is veryyyyyyyyy frustrationg n stressing,,, dey accept mi to get like about 99.95 uai.. wen mi aim is onli 2 get 90+ onli... its really hard.. i guess its all a part of being in yr 12 i guesss