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MaryJane

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Watching porn with my s/o I think isn't nearly as good as reading erotica. I find porn a laugh, its not sexy to me at all! But erotica is nice... v.nice ;)

In regards to boys and their porn, I completely understand the spreading of the seed, and how they need to feel like they have a little 'group' of girls to spread that seed around with. And seeing its no longer socially acceptable for a guy to actually go out and do this, they have to resort to porn. I think that no matter how much a guy loves you and gets off on you, they need some other stimulation, or they'll get bored. I personally dont have an issue with guys looking at porn while I'm with them, as long as:

1. I dont see it
2. If I do see it, they better not be with animals, and have to be what I consider an attractive female
3. Must be over the age of consent (and I dont mean those 'Just legal' chicks, I mean like 18-20ish).
4. And please, no webcameras!... or saved cyber from the night before... *shudder*

I do get bothered however, when I find that they're looking at girls who aren't good-looking (in my opinion) in the slighest. Or they just look cheap and nasty with bleached blonde hair with brown roots and makeup for miles. It triggers something in me that makes me feel... not worthless, but makes me question my attractiveness. I think "Oh crap, if he gets off on that, I hate to think what I look like!", which isnt a nice feeling.

So boys, spread your seeds, just keep it quiet (unless we start looking together! ;))
 

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99% of guys watch porn and it's not going to change. The only people I have ever known not to look at porn was this very very christian guy i used to go to school with and the school chaplain.

Just because guys look at porn doesn't mean they are unhappy with their relationship or their girlfriend isn't satisfying them.
 

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threads have been merged :)

i've answered this Q before, but anyway i agree with what MJ said - i don't particularly find it sexy either but hey it can get you off :p

ps. paris hilton SUCKS
 
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if you are not at the part in a relationship where you are getting any then what is the problem with porn??
 

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OMFG, the Paris Hilton video was not porn, you cannot call that gay shit porn. honestly! It's the gayest video ever! I saw the colored version and she's not the whore she pretends to be at all!

Bit of transcipt:
Dude - "Come on, stick that bottle in your pussy!"
Paris - "What! Ewww..."

Rofl and you say she's a whore? I promptly deleted this travesty.
 

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Past gf's haven't cared. As long as there isnt any bizarre or illegal porn (and that there isnt heaps of it) its ok.
 

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i acknowledge that males watch it...as long as the guy doesnt make me watch it or goes on about it heaps, then i'm ok
 

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I've been in relationships where we have read pornographic magazines together. It's great. She was bi-sexual, so I didn't have to look at the doodle.
 

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Warning: the following is a flame!

I got over porn last year... why? Because its just so fake! all of it! Those girls do it for the money (contrary to another person's viewpoint), and nothing else. Bullshit they want to be recognised by males for their beauty! They can walk down the main street with their mini-skirt and low cut top and have every male below 30 stare open mouthed at them. I feel sorry for the actors. They are just so... pathetic! That thought used to override any sexual "thing" I had when I looked "it" up.

I know that I may seem not to have any testosterone or pubes or whatever, tho try and understand. Its kinda like religion (in my viewpoint). All of it is so fake. Every religion entices you through different things. Who can "prove" their religion is real. What is it worth? A delusional self-satisfaction feeling? Every woman entices you through different things. In the end, what is it worth? A self satisfaction that lasts at most half an hour?

And (tho a little off topic), who would kill an animal here to eat? Who would shoot a cow in the head to eat? What is the difference between a disabled kid (with a really low I.Q), a "normal" random person from accross the world and a cow? A level of intelegence. Would you kill the disabled kid to eat? Would you kill the random person from across the world to eat? NO! You woudn't! Why? Because your parents taught you that humanity is above everything else. Is it true? What is a few points of I.Q? A life is a life.

And yes, I am a vego. All meat-eaters who have the intelegence to understand this concept makes me sick.

So many delusions we all live.

Sorry for the hollywood level of Cornyness.

Oh and I forgot! FLAAAAME!

/flame
 
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JoeysBoy said:
Warning: the following is a flame!

I got over porn last year... why? Because its just so fake! all of it! Those girls do it for the money (contrary to another person's viewpoint), and nothing else. Bullshit they want to be recognised by males for their beauty! They can walk down the main street with their mini-skirt and low cut top and have every male below 30 stare open mouthed at them. I feel sorry for the actors. They are just so... pathetic! That thought used to override any sexual "thing" I had when I looked "it" up.

I know that I may seem not to have any testosterone or pubes or whatever, tho try and understand. Its kinda like religion (in my viewpoint). All of it is so fake. Every religion entices you through different things. Who can "prove" their religion is real. What is it worth? A delusional self-satisfaction feeling? Every woman entices you through different things. In the end, what is it worth? A self satisfaction that lasts at most half an hour?

And (tho a little off topic), who would kill an animal here to eat? Who would shoot a cow in the head to eat? What is the difference between a disabled kid (with a really low I.Q), a "normal" random person from accross the world and a cow? A level of intelegence. Would you kill the disabled kid to eat? Would you kill the random person from across the world to eat? NO! You woudn't! Why? Because your parents taught you that humanity is above everything else. Is it true? What is a few points of I.Q? A life is a life.

And yes, I am a vego. All meat-eaters who have the intelegence to understand this concept makes me sick.

So many delusions we all live.

Sorry for the hollywood level of Cornyness.

Oh and I forgot! FLAAAAME!

/flame
The nice men in white coats are here to take you back to your room. If you be good you can have some jelly tonight.
 

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