Scenario: What would you do? (1 Viewer)

[VenomP]

Okay. Recently you have been dating someone who is attracted to you and you are attracted to them.

After a few dates,you find out from a friend of theirs that they have had a relatively active sexual life, e.g. given head, received it, had sex, etc.

Given that you are not as sexually active in comparison to them, what would you do from this point? Pursue the relationship? Or would you be turned off by this recent discovery?

 

[Pace_T]

dont ask her. she'll deny everything or twist words around. an easy girl is an easy girl. you cnt change that. anyway, she'll just be offended by it if you bring it up and you'll be heading down a rocky road real early on. you should be more concerned about whether shes been doing it behind another guys back or not.
youd be surprised how many girls lie about their sexual activity.
to answer your question, personally i dont find easy girls unattractive, so id find out as much as i can about her past but from other people not her.

 

[VenomP]

you might need to ask her if its true.. how reliable is your source?

Quite reliable. I think I've got it right.

dont ask her. she'll deny everything or twist words around. an easy girl is an easy girl. you cnt change that. anyway, she'll just be offended by it if you bring it up and you'll be heading down a rocky road real early on. you should be more concerned about whether shes been doing it behind another guys back or not.
youd be surprised how many girls lie about their sexual activity.
to answer your question, personally i dont find easy girls unattractive, so id find out as much as i can about her past but from other people not her.

Right. According to her, she's broken off all her previous relationships cause she felt the guys were jerks. But not until after having sex with them.

 

[boris]

Okay. Recently you have been dating someone who is attracted to you and you are attracted to them.

lol @ this sentence

 

[jumb]

Okay. Recently you have been dating someone who is attracted to you and you are attracted to them.

After a few dates,you find out from a friend of theirs that they have had a relatively active sexual life, e.g. given head, received it, had sex, etc.

Given that you are not as sexually active in comparison to them, what would you do from this point? Pursue the relationship? Or would you be turned off by this recent discovery?

Does it really matter what they've done in the past?

 

[VenomP]

Does it really matter what they've done in the past?

To some people it would. It tends to bother me more than others. I'm not sure why.

But on the same basis... A man robs a bank. A few years later he applies for a job as an accountant. Does it matter what he's done in the past?

 

[jumb]

To some people it would. It tends to bother me more than others. I'm not sure why.

But on the same basis... A man robs a bank. A few years later he applies for a job as an accountant. Does it matter what he's done in the past?

Jesus, if you're that insecure about it that you need to defend it, then stop seeing her.

I for one wouldn't care about it. Do you think it would be fair if you were in that situation and she stopped seeing you?

 

[boris]

micropenis alert!

 

[withoutaface]

If you don't fuck this chick then it becomes a cyclical problem. The older you get, the more experience your partners will have, while you are still a virgin.

In conclusion fuck her now, or you will be the one who sucks cocks in hell.

 

[VenomP]

Jesus, if you're that insecure about it that you need to defend it, then stop seeing her.

I for one wouldn't care about it. Do you think it would be fair if you were in that situation and she stopped seeing you?

I am by no means defending it. Just trying to see where you're coming from, and putting forward an idea.

I suppose it wouldn't be fair, but it's not something I'd usually do.

 

[ElGronko]

Why wouldn't you go out with girl who's had lots of previous partners?

I actually don't understand the logic behind it.

Can someone provide me with a rational reason for not?

Even if you aren't good/confident in the sack, if she actually likes you she shouldn't care right? (hahaha good luck). If she actually cares about you she'd help you get better...that, and just get good at going down on girls.

My question still stands.

 

[Nat3skiz]

lol @ this sentence

lol i'm sure plenty of people date when theres no attraction at all. right?

 

[onlinenooby]

Use it to your advantage. Im guessing shes probally good at what she does, so go for it.

 

[frankenstein]

I would get heads/blow jobs off her

j/k

 

[jessyy]

just get on with it. its not as if your not going to enjoy it lol

 

[Trajan]

Yes ...but the OP seems to have developed genuine feelings for her. That is why he was a little shocked when he found out about her sordid past.

He doesn't seem to want to just ''hit and quit'....otherwise he would have done it already.

This is a typical case of falling for someone then finding out that they are a social butterfly....a butterfly that alway spreads their wings at every available opportunity.

 

[ElGronko]

And why is that a problem?

 

[jessyy]

lol butterfly.

basically if shes a slut you shouldnt bother. she will just rip your heart out and rape it.

if you dont see her as a slut then just talk to her about it. if you both geniunly feel for each other it wont matter.

 

[Trajan]

So you wouldn't be the slightest bit upset if a girl that you had major feelings for turned out to be a undercover vixen/slag in the bedroom and out of it?

This could end very badly.....she could get bored with just one guy....chances are she will....book it.

I say go with it...but be cautious, try not to get too emotionally attached. Sure it's easier said than done...but what else can you do?

 

[Kwayera]

I'm still loving the double standard. A girl likes sexual activity = OMG SHE'S A SLUT.