Ellie_Belly
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I beg to differ.MzbLaZeIT said:parents are always right!
should i tell or not..? (1 Viewer)
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Got naive?MzbLaZeIT said:your still young and parents are always right!
whiteeagle
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If I was in your situation, I wouldn't tell them for now but wait until the HSC's over. I would also concentrate in my studying to achieve the highest UAI possible so my parents won't have any reason to blame my relationship.
Any emotional problem & conflict you have in Year 12 will effect your performance at school. So please, avoid them!
Any emotional problem & conflict you have in Year 12 will effect your performance at school. So please, avoid them!
whiteeagle
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Why do we have to show ID at the liquor store?elfm said:
666_blessings
Hi! I'm Alan...
I think alcohol and relationships are two totally different things. That was a bad comparison.
pinkblinkbarbie
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i agree, bad comparison.
i dont understand how you can be together for two years, and only see each other, at the most, once a fortnight?! i see my boyfriend every day. even when i was at school we saw each other every second or third day. we wouldnt really have had a rleationship otherwise.
anyway, the longest i hid a relationship for was 2 weeks, my parents found out and said "dont hide it, you can come to us with that sort of thing", and id been sneaking around with him and stuff so they didnt totally trust the two of us while we were together. we broke up after 10 months, and 4 months later i started dating my current boyfriend (now of 2 years!) and bought him home a week after our first date and they trust us completely! like from the word go they have trusted him and i, which is the best.
im not going to tell you whether to tell them or not, but in my experience im glad i told them about my current boyfriend. so draw your own conclusion from my story
i dont understand how you can be together for two years, and only see each other, at the most, once a fortnight?! i see my boyfriend every day. even when i was at school we saw each other every second or third day. we wouldnt really have had a rleationship otherwise.
anyway, the longest i hid a relationship for was 2 weeks, my parents found out and said "dont hide it, you can come to us with that sort of thing", and id been sneaking around with him and stuff so they didnt totally trust the two of us while we were together. we broke up after 10 months, and 4 months later i started dating my current boyfriend (now of 2 years!) and bought him home a week after our first date and they trust us completely! like from the word go they have trusted him and i, which is the best.
im not going to tell you whether to tell them or not, but in my experience im glad i told them about my current boyfriend. so draw your own conclusion from my story
whiteeagle
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It's not a comparison between alcohol & relationship, fool!666_blessings said:
If you can't comprehend my post, don't reply.
MzbLaZeIT
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ok they may not be ALWAYS right, but they sure do want the best for you, and no1 else wants that other than your parents. they will ALWAYS be there for you
well thats my family anyway
and before anyone talks i dont think i have to justify my reasons, coz like others, i've been nearly through hell with my parents, but it always ends out that they are the ones there in the end for you.
well thats my family anyway
and before anyone talks i dont think i have to justify my reasons, coz like others, i've been nearly through hell with my parents, but it always ends out that they are the ones there in the end for you.
Please- if you want to keep seeing your boyfriend (as little as that may already be) DO NOT tell your parents.
I speak from personal experience. Don't tell them until the HSC is over because then they can't blame him for every failure you have this year. Don't give them ammunition.
What I don't get is if you've kept it up for 2 years then why tell them now?
By the sounds of things they are very strict and I can almost guarantee that they will ban you from seeing him or at least condemn the relationship. If you want to stay in this already fine relationship then don't do anything to mess it up- because telling your parents will mess it up for sure.
Remember- ignorance is bliss. What they don't know won't hurt them- or you and your boyfriend for that matter.
I speak from personal experience. Don't tell them until the HSC is over because then they can't blame him for every failure you have this year. Don't give them ammunition.
What I don't get is if you've kept it up for 2 years then why tell them now?
By the sounds of things they are very strict and I can almost guarantee that they will ban you from seeing him or at least condemn the relationship. If you want to stay in this already fine relationship then don't do anything to mess it up- because telling your parents will mess it up for sure.
Remember- ignorance is bliss. What they don't know won't hurt them- or you and your boyfriend for that matter.
champ_sammy_19
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err... that can be lethal as much as it can be to tell them if u don't and they find out chances are that they will have a huge amount of distrust and become even more protective of u *....eek!*elfm said:
lilkiwifruit
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sometimes parents just have to learn that their kids are growing up! I was really surprised to find out how supportive my parents were when I told them so I would say, just be honest with them and they'll be extra protective for a while but you'll also win their trust because of your honesty. On the other hand, if they find out themselves, I think they would be pretty hurt that you didn't tell them.
On the other hand, if they find out themselves, I think they would be pretty hurt that you didn't tell them.