Wat it is that guys like in a chick? (1 Viewer)

[Bobness]

DECENT guys would want a girl that they can respect. i.e, someone who isn't slutty or bitchy in the slightests. And also, a girl that respects herself.. For a start, not referring to herself as a "chick" like in the thread title.. the only girls i refer to as chicks are the pieces of shit i have no respect for..
Open-mindedness and tolerance are also good things to look for
And personally, someone completely un-religious is a major bonus!!

You sort of contra dicked yourself there with the "i want a girl who doesn't refer to herself as a ZOMG-a-chick" and "un-religion is so hawt" but later "open-mindedness and tolerance are good things".

 

[lengy]

Oh motherfucking snapped.

 

[Gilbert1]

Smart, funny, good looking (yes men are shallow) and isn't always worried that you are breaking up with them.

 

[Bookie]

good looking.

preferably not stupid.

thank god for letting me do an arts degree requiring 98.45

 

[CramMaster]

All men have different tastes in women.

Hint: Most guys do not want their g/f to have some characteristic traits of THEIR MOTHER. To be honest I find my mum annoying, but I love her, but also I wouldn't want to marry somebody like her.

Also having a great sense of humour is another plus.

 

[jurassic.]

Answer: Males and Females are looking for themselves in a partner. They are most attracted to a personality that is quite similar to their own. Physicially they are likely attracted to people hotter than themselves but people are realistic and generally end up with people aproximately as attractive as themselves.

The only other 'logical' answer is: we are looking for our opposite gender parent (except maybe for homosexuals who are looking for same gender parent).

Personally I've always gone for people who're completely different to me. Especially not people who're similar to my mother. Why would I want someone to remind me of my mother while I'm hooking up with them?

 

[Legham]

You sort of contra dicked yourself there with the "i want a girl who doesn't refer to herself as a ZOMG-a-chick" and "un-religion is so hawt" but later "open-mindedness and tolerance are good things".

Haha, yeah.. you got me there. But, i dont want to go out with myself do i? I'm not looking for myself to be those things.. But religion is just something i particularly hate, im open-minded and tolerant for pretty much everything else..

 

[Mabs]

In order..
I look for someone intelligent that shares at least some of my philosophical and political views.
Then it's music.
Then looks.

I tend to lower expectations with the first since it's so hard to find anybody.. Even leaving out sharing beliefs.

 

[2sense]

this is what i look for in a girl. brunnete, brown eyes, nice face, nice breasts , nice arse, 160-175 cm no dwarfs, 50-60 kg. 16-19 years old. i dont mind blonde and blue eyes or asians.

 

[Bobness]

All men have different tastes in women.

Hint: Most guys do not want their g/f to have some characteristic traits of THEIR MOTHER. To be honest I find my mum annoying, but I love her, but also I wouldn't want to marry somebody like her.

Also having a great sense of humour is another plus.

Personally I've always gone for people who're completely different to me. Especially not people who're similar to my mother. Why would I want someone to remind me of my mother while I'm hooking up with them?

LOL you so want to f*ck your own mother, freudian slip on a banana.

this is what i look for in a girl. brunnete, brown eyes, nice face, nice breasts , nice arse, 160-175 cm no dwarfs, 50-60 kg. 16-19 years old. i dont mind blonde and blue eyes or asians.

Yeah mang i carry metre rules and scales around with me when i go looking for a broad too. Nice face, nice breasts, nice anal-ogy.

 

[Nakashima]

Russell Peters said in his December show that guys can just stare into space and think about nothing at all. So I would imagine it'd be really annoying if the girlfriend comes in and goes "baby what are you thinking about?" and stops at nothing until the guy lies and tells her he's thinking about how pretty she is.

I guess a mutual acceptance of incomprehensible things that the opposite sex does would be nice.

 

[lengy]

Yeah, I don't get why they don't believe us when we say we're not thinking of anything, just spacing out.

 

[Skeeta]

oh i totally understand. My life of late has involved staring miserably out of windows and trying to get my eyes to focus.

 

[Legham]

Yeah, I don't get why they don't believe us when we say we're not thinking of anything, just spacing out.

Oh, i second that! "What are you thinking about?" is right up there on my list of most hated questions

 

[Serius]

erm attractive, doesnt take life too seriously so most of the time hanging out is fun. Appreciates my oddball sense of humour. Doesnt get snippy when i call her fat/ugly/worthless etc [part of my sense of humour] cause it means she takes herself too seriously.

I dont mind a slut because atleast they know what they want and they go for it...what i really cant stand are girls with whorish tendancies i.e a slut in self denial or a girl whose all about the material.

having teh smarts is a good thing, but not necessary, its a girlfriend we are talking about here not a colleague so its important to have ateast average smarts but i dont need an einstein.

Not fat... i dont mean she cant have curves or mass a healthy amount, but we all know what fat means, and i will have none of it.

Not religious. They can say they are 'x' religion aslong as they arent really practising or are going to bible bash me. Muslims are the exception to this... no muslims fullstop.

No needy or clingy...this one sorts itself out cause the types of girls who get shitty when i dont call [ which is like always- i dont like phones] end up going their own way.


Basically i am creating a list which narrows shit down, but when it comes to it instinctually i know what i want better than intelectually, everything on this list is compromisable if it 'feels' right.

 

[flyingdown]

Whoa, some guys have really high standards. My current boyfriend and all of my exes were just happy that I exist.

Must be the good music taste

 

[lil mon]

What sort of question is this?

I can tell what I want from a girl.

Don't prattle about stupid shit,

Be attractive (at least some sort of effort)

Learn that life isn't all serious (fucking relax)

Learn to like spanking, biting, giving blow jobs, anal and love letting me blow semen on you. But don't be slutty about it.

As you can see there is no girl like this. But this is what I want.

u r just PATHETIC.
ive got ure life planned out.
u live with yo mama for da rest of yo lyf cos u cant get a girl
and for socialising u go to the whore house

dude u hav no substance whatso ever. so u can go screw a pole for all the rest of the female population care.
cya sucker

 

[flyingdown]

^ Yeah, some of these posts are just low and chauvinistic.

If a guy expects that much, he can only theoretically expect to get it if he has a lot to offer and be pretty damn perfect. Besdies, it's not like you'd get anything with that attitude.

 

[dieburndie]

^ Yeah, some of these posts are just low and chauvinistic.

If a guy expects that much, he can only theoretically expect to get it if he has a lot to offer and be pretty damn perfect. Besdies, it's not like you'd get anything with that attitude.

You're absolutely wrong and women aren't people.
I like your avatar though.

 

[flyingdown]

You're absolutely wrong and women aren't people.
I like your avatar though.

As a girl, I'm allowed to by misogynistic, so I won't get infuriated and verbally assualt you just yet.

Why is it that you think that women aren't people, or in some way worse than men?