ur_inner_child said:
oooooooooooooooooookay imhere4themusic, I'm debating here so don't get angry like last time!
there are QUITE a few muslim girls without head scarves now.... so indeed it can change. They still pray several times a day and such, so change CAN happen.
I believe in God, and I'll critisize all I like. I am all for the core parts of Christianity, just this shit about female priests, abortions, etc, those petty rules, I'll critisize. I may not be a traditional/conservative Christian, but I think I'm loyal to the faith and I disregard the stuff that would probably turn me atheist, if it hasn't in the past.
The pope is meant to represent a large role in Christianity, so it DOES concern me on what he says is right and wrong. The role is meant to be influential, he's in a position of power, and I'm totally interested.
I don't feel that walking away (as a Christian and a thinker) is the mature thing to do. So that point you raised about leaving them and accepting that it won't ever change is a bit pessimistic.
No change would have happened with that kind of attitude. How would Martin Luther King make a speech about equality if he just walked away to accept that things will never change or improve? How would women have had any voice, right to vote or have a career if they accepted things could never improve/change?
Although change may not be total, it can happen, so I don't agree with you telling us to walk away and accept it.....
Well I'm sorry you can't accept my views but hey, if you did, what fun would that be?! I'm not angry at all.
All I'm saying is this:
I'm not pessimistic, I want change, I don't agree with the church on everything. I am christian also, baptised Catholic then strayed away now attended Anglican masses.. I find them just different takes on the same movie..
Apart from all the wants and changes and needs in todays modern world i still don't think the Church should change. The bible DOES state that sex outside of marriage is wrong and such. Some people question the credibility of the bible. Whether or not it is real or made up it clearly states rules. The people of the church over a long time have come to what THIER UNDERSTANDING of these rules are. To break the rules is a mortal sin.. and to break them but confess on your deathbed like korn suggested probably isn't a sure-fire way to get in to heaven either. So these people, who BELIEVE in this book totally as the AUTHORITY AND WORD OF GOD have decided it's best to follow it or spend an eternity rotting in hell. That is what they believe. I'm not pessimistic in telling anyone to walk away I'm telling you that the church won't change on these things. It just doesn't make sense to me why someone would change their beliefs and basis for all life on earth to cop out for the media and other people. I believe in abortion, but if you want an abortion go do it. The church isn't stopping you they just disagree with it. You will be forgiven if your heart is true anyway. If you don't believe in priestly celibacy become a pope and then have sex. The church won't stop you half way through the act. Contrary to popular belief the Church doesn't control a large portion of the world, directly. It influences the world yes, but if people don't like it, don't be influenced by it.
What I am saying is the Church is not your mother. You can still be a practicsing christian loving Jesus and not go to church, or not go to the catholic church. If you want these views, go to a progressive church, just not the local catholic down the street. The church doesn't slap you on your hand like your mother does when you reach for something you can't have. I acts as an advisory board, it gives you a choice, just like god ironically. It tells you all the facts and then leaves it up to you to decide. Getting the Catholic Church and the Pope to change their views is like getting blood out of a stone, and as much as you hate it; for the rest of your life on this earth they are going to try and change yours instead. Pressuring the church into "change" isn't going to "change" anything. It would be a measly victory over a small argument. People should back off the Pope, he looks like a nice man.
I'm not meaning to offend anyones views again I'm just trying to point out. The very spirit of the first Pope Peter, is still here today. The rock. The church. They are equal and they are not moving. I just don't think the church will change it's views, no matter whether I, you, or anyone else thinks they should.