anomalousdecay
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I said I have given up. I know the result is going to be like the rest. People say signs mean nothing… Thats it, it means nothing. Thats the same with my life… nothing, its just crap and it will always be. Its not only the girls I like that makes my life crap Ive got other things that make it crap… This thing with the girls i like just adds on top of it all.
Her friend looking at me when talking to my crush… means nothing, she is just looking.
I put my hand on my crushes waist and she gave a positive reaction to it… means nothing, it was just her reaction, it might have been the same to another guy also.
Her looking at me from the corner of her eye… she doesn't even want to know me.
She talks to other guys giving proper eye contact but to me she never starts conversations and doesn't give me proper eye contact… obvious she isn't interested…
I should just give up...
Dude, you'll be able to make plenty of friends later on in life.
From what you have said here you should just tell her the truth.
Imo, its a good opportunity to see if you can rely on her as a friend or not. If you have these feelings now, you should let her know.
There's only a few options in the future:
- You bottle this up and you tell her that you have feelings for her at the wrong time when she has feelings for some one else and you lose the friendship and the girl.
- You bottle it up to the point that you end the friendship yourself.
- You somehow get over it and stay friends with her again.
As for the last option, that only happens if you gained the crush upon first sight and don't really know her well yet imo. When you know someone well, inside and out, that's when you know how much you like them. Just go for it when you are ready.
To be honest, if a girl smiles when you hold her on the waist and you both mutually look each other in the eye and smile at each other, then that's practically the runway landing light signal made at the end of Die Hard 2 that she likes you.
However it could just be that she is not ready hence why she has not said anything. Or she could be waiting for you.
Nevertheless though, no matter how much people say they aren't ready, when they like each other they just go for it regardless.
And if you lose the friendship now, there's a big chance in the end any way you'll lose the friendship. You've already jumped into the hole, just depends if you want to get out of the hole and climb a big mountain or if you want to be too deep to get out yourself and wait for someone else to dig you out.