would you do it? (3 Viewers)

[braad]

lol my life is far from figured outplus things don't always go to plan.
I like to take each wk as it comes aswell, though i like to think about what my future will be like sometimes

yeh, i thought about my future....but when i was young and wondered wot my life would b when im 18...it wasnt this fucked up damn childhood innocence...wot i'd pay 4 mine back....

 

[OZGIRL86]

how is a 16 yr old 2 young
ur 18
and its legal
neways..i dont like the career type etc..dont have kids till they late 30s
etc
but yeah what can ya do


whoops..in respose to braads post

IMO 16 is too young.
I can't imagine myself getting married at 18, let alone someone getting married at 16.

 

[braad]

IMO 16 is too young.
I can't imagine myself getting married at 18, let alone someone getting married at 16.

thats coz ur life is "mapped out"

 

[OZGIRL86]

thats coz ur life is "mapped out"

lol, not really

 

[braad]

lol...*cough*....sure it aint

 

[soha]

IMO 16 is too young.
I can't imagine myself getting married at 18, let alone someone getting married at 16.

yeah but ppl are different
some people think 25 is too young
depends on everyones situation
for u its young
for me..its not a big deal..
all depends really

 

[braad]

lol, 25 isnt too young! 25 ur at ur prime u can still play sport n not look like an old person...

 

[soha]

yeah my friend sez 25 is too young..and they wanna get hitched and settle at like 36
im like wtf..
but whatever..

 

[braad]

lol...yeh...right, i dont wanna be 50 n have my oldest child jus entering high skool

 

[soha]

haha i know ey
like..my dad was 36 when he got married
hes 55 and my sister is in yr 7 this year
its way to old
but my other friend her dads 65
i feel sorry for her
like he will probably die b4 she gets married
and her kids wont have a grandpa etc
i actually want my parents to know my kids

 

[braad]

yehhhh...its tuff, my dads best mate had kids when he n his wife were 18 or 19...they're now out of the house n stuff n its cool, but it was shit when they were young...decisions decisionsss! not like we really have 2 think 2 much about it, well i dont i know that...

my sisters ex-bf's dad was like 65, my ex's younger sister is in yr 7 now too....sorta weird....

 

[OZGIRL86]

lol...*cough*....sure it aint

haha, at what age do you see yourself getting married and have kids?

 

[braad]

errr...when sum1 loves me lol, i dunno, find sum1 half decent who wont use me, n yehhhhhhhhhhh, but betta b b4 30...i dont wanna b old when my kids r young

 

[OZGIRL86]

errr...when sum1 loves me lol, i dunno, find sum1 half decent who wont use me, n yehhhhhhhhhhh, but betta b b4 30...i dont wanna b old when my kids r young

hahah yeah..

 

[braad]

mmmm...neways, nite, im goin 2 bed...n 2 eat dinner...or woteva i can find

cya lataaaa

 

[OZGIRL86]

night...

 

[braad]

hmm...u 'smile' alot...lol, call me weir,d but its unnnerving

neways, i'll leave y'all 2 do...errr.stuffs...mmm, yeh, bye

 

[~*HSC 4 life*~]

i personally want to feel finacially secure and just everything stable all around me before i plunge into marriage, but if those conditions were met and i found the right person and i just so happened to be 18, then i guess i'd go for it, if you know its right and you'll do it anyway then why wait?

 

[iamsickofyear12]

If i met someone when I was 18 i might marry them in the future, but I wouldn't marry someone when I was 18. Add to that because I am currently 18 and single, I'd have to meet someone first, and I wouldn't marry someone until I have been with them for at least 3 years. So that makes it mimimum 21. But then I'd still want to wait until I had finished uni and worked for a bit, and get my own place and everything. So add a couple years on to that. So as it stands now, I wouldn't marry someone until I was probably around 24.

Marrige is a big committment, huge actually, and I think its really stupid to jump into it when you are too young or when you don't know the person well enough, hence my above reasoning.

 

[ogmzergrush]

I don't think I would (Even if I did have a time machine). It makes more sense to me to wait until study obligations/etc are complete, and to wait until I've got a job, at least some financial security, and a moderately secure looking future.

When I'm ready for it, it's something I'm going to get right the first time, and to me, if I were to have been married at 18, I'd have been rushing into it well unprepared. Long-term relationship, yes, but marriage, no, not this early.