doesn't it make more sense to not have any 'dirt' from relationships (because you're with the nice guy), and wipe/share the rest of the 'dirt' (your problems) onto the nice boy bf, it makes more sense to me
Not irrational from the girls point of view, I am wondering why the guys don't just tell the girl to get stuffed, why keep wanting them while they send themself to more doomed relationships, that is the irrational part.
Is it odd seeing what you think put into words? It was originally for me when I read a lot of dreamerish's posts when she was a newbie and she could say what i wanted to say but better
It's not odd though, people think similarly, another example of that if you wait long enough you...
But I agree with Casmira, ok 1 bf or 2 is fine. If they just want to have fun and then settle with a nice guy i would tell them to f off and find someone else. If someone else wants to put up with that then good for them but I don't understand why and I would like to be told why so I can understand.
to most girls, because they think like the above - isn't it a double standard that you don't want a nice guy now, so you leave them waiting while you have your fun and in the end you will come back to them?
Lol, wth, if the argument above has been going around in circles like the last 2 posts then I know why it has been going for so long....
For anyone else reading this thread and possibly (I think you are) misreading my posts... I do not want a PhD, I would never do one for the sake of being...