gay or lesbian, does it matter? (1 Viewer)

[emily.unknown]

Hello everyone,
Is it acceptable for a girl to call herself gay or should she say lesbian instead(seeing as guys don't have that option)? Does it matter or is it just choice of words?

I want to tell a teacher/councillor that I'm gay, but how do I do it?? I feel kinda awkward to just say, "oh, btw, i'm a lesbian".
Also, If you've ever come out or you friend has to you, let me know what they said and how you reacted too?

Any ideas would be much appreciated
Thanks all

 

[Russdog]

say i like girls

 

[Captain Gh3y]

Hello everyone,
Is it acceptable for a girl to call herself gay or should she say lesbian instead(seeing as guys don't have that option)? Does it matter or is it just choice of words?

I want to tell a teacher/councillor that I'm gay, but how do I do it?? I feel kinda awkward to just say, "oh, btw, i'm a lesbian".
Also, If you've ever come out or you friend has to you, let me know what they said and how you reacted too?

Any ideas would be much appreciated
Thanks all

how about "hellbound"? Dyke.

 

[DownInFlames]

Hello everyone,
Is it acceptable for a girl to call herself gay or should she say lesbian instead(seeing as guys don't have that option)? Does it matter or is it just choice of words?

I want to tell a teacher/councillor that I'm gay, but how do I do it?? I feel kinda awkward to just say, "oh, btw, i'm a lesbian".
Also, If you've ever come out or you friend has to you, let me know what they said and how you reacted too?

Any ideas would be much appreciated
Thanks all

say you're into girls...

I have a friend who's bisexual and it was no surprise when she told me she was gay. It will probably just come up in conversation one day with your friends, but if you want to tell a councillor about it you just go and tell the councillor. Probably not your teachers as it's unlikely they'll give a shit.

 

[iamsamx]

lez's are hot. let me know if u turn bi and u and ur gf wanna have a 3 way.

 

[DownInFlames]

gay =/= bi.

she identifies as 'gay' but has also had multiple relationships with guys = bi.

 

[puglover]

gay =/= bi.

i identify as bi.
but sometimes i just say gay cause im lazy.

 

[Captain Gh3y]

i identify as bi.
but sometimes i just say gay cause im lazy.

you should say "i'm going to hell because i hate god" instead

 

[puglover]

you should say "i'm going to hell because i hate god" instead

i'm going to hell because i hate god.

i am not phased.


perhaps you should be less judgemental.
you ass whipe.. my father just passed away this year...
you do not even understand the inappropriateness of what you said.
so stick your freaking religion down your gob and shut up.
because your god is not my god. i rather make love and go to hell then believe in your god.

love you too Captain Gh3y xox

 

[Captain Gh3y]

you should repent and find Jesus :uhhuh:

 

[puglover]

you should repent and find Jesus :uhhuh:

nay.
i rather be a martyr.

but thankyou anywho.

 

[CieL]

"I'm homosexual"

 

[puglover]

A martyr to what cause exactly.

for living.

 

[s-p-a-c-e-d]

'queer'

but srsly it doesn't really matter...

 

[withoutaface]

i'm going to hell because i hate god.

i am not phased.


perhaps you should be less judgemental.
you ass whipe.. my father just passed away this year...
you do not even understand the inappropriateness of what you said.
so stick your freaking religion down your gob and shut up.
because your god is not my god. i rather make love and go to hell then believe in your god.

love you too Captain Gh3y xox

Your father died because he was a bad man who raised an abomination.

 

[SomeoneCool]

If you ever make a movie with a girlfriend, can I watch it?

 

[emily.unknown]

Thanks guys for all your help.
And that factsheet too Exphate.

I expected those "make a movie wit your gf and let me watch" comments, so yah. But, no I don't think I'll be doing that ever, let alone the fact I no longer have a gf atm.(But, because you put a cute smiley after that comment, you never know SomeoneCool )

Also, my family is very strict and religious, and I am fully aware of the fact I'm going to hell thanks for the reminder though Captain gh3y. I have been struggling with that lately. I have to choose my religion or having a partner. Can't have both

But, yeah, thanks again everyone.

 

[CurlyRuby]

Also, my family is very strict and religious, and I am fully aware of the fact I'm going to hell thanks for the reminder though Captain gh3y. I have been struggling with that lately. I have to choose my religion or having a partner. Can't have both

I dunno how true that is, are you Christian/Catholic? A lot of people these days interpret the passages in the bible about homosexuality as something from the time. As wanky as this is going to sound- Jesus said that he came to earth for everyone, and he said he loved everyone, so I don't REALLY think you have to choose. I think you just have to look at things a bit of a different way.

 

[emily.unknown]

Yeah. My family is baptist and there is no other way in looking at what the bible says about being gay. I would need to change my denomination basically, and knowing what my family believes makes it hard. Thanks for your opinion though

 

[Alvik]

Yeah. My family is baptist and there is no other way in looking at what the bible says about being gay. I would need to change my denomination basically, and knowing what my family believes makes it hard. Thanks for your opinion though

There are plenty of ways to look at the bible.

Jesus always embraced the outcast, that's how Christianity started. How the church can make someone an outcast and call themselves Christian doesn't make any sense.