going for older guys/girls (1 Viewer)

[OZGIRL86]

true, but i just wanted to see what the girls said on this

beyond the stereotypes

because for me when im attracted to someone its because i feel comfortable being with them...maturity really isnt such a big thing for guys i guess in comparison to girls

I agree with how you said about feeling comfortable with being with them.

in the end if you love someone and care for someone things like maturity and age don't really matter..

 

[Shuter]

And even though I'm sure it will annoy josie no end, it still seems valid to include intellectual whores take on the whole issue:

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/rating.html

 

[sped_kid01]

ozgirl86: as a girl would u agree with that? that young girls find having a lisense attractive? or even just the fact of saying that her bf is "18"...
alot of young girls i know talk about this as a great thing

 

[OZGIRL86]

ozgirl86: as a girl would u agree with that? that young girls find having a lisense attractive? or even just the fact of saying that her bf is "18"...
alot of young girls i know talk about this as a great thing

Maybe younger girls do, but as you get older things like that don't really matter.
I think thats a silly thing to look for in a guy whether they had their license or not, its not in my criteria lol, but i guess if they had their license it would be a bonus, not a neccesity.
Younger girls just seem to like to brag about dating older guys.

 

[sped_kid01]

yeah i agree with that
but i dont think its relevant for our age..its a maturity thing

 

[Shuter]

The main reason I think all this maturity thing is BS is that guys don't particually change fast. I mean I do things with and talk to 25 year olds ect and often they'll do more immature things than me, and I'm 17. I'll hang out with my brother and we also do similar things and he's 26. Believe me, there is not a real wide range in maturity from about 17-25, the only difference is the age on the birth certificate.

 

[thejosiekiller]

god shuter the ladder theory IS A JOKE - in no way does it accurately presnt any real reasons or facts as to the behaviour for the oppostie sexes- its a vast stereotype that doesnt even apply to a mjority or probably a minority of ppl within our society

and maturity and comfortability rnt really connected- theyre different concepts that we r using rather generally, but imo maturity isnt a thing for me

for other ppl maturity may be connected to comfortability- but not for me

as shuter said age isnt really a factor inluencing maturity in its entirety

 

[veridis]

but they are linked
immaturity has a whole lot of nagtive connotations along with it. if someone does something you find immature its almost always a bad thing. maturity is just a phrase thrown around to try and define comfortableness wich sounds alot lamer than maturity when trying to articulate what you like in a person

 

[thejosiekiller]

lol no it isnt lame im sorry

but u assume that every1 sees someone who isnt mature as bad- sometimes ppl want to have fun instead of being bored

because at different times for diffent ppl they r attracted to ppl based on different things about the girl and things about urself

 

[Shuter]

Hmm I've had another thought, perhaps "mature" could rather be defined as "has learned to tell the girls what they want to hear". That sounds more accurate.

 

[OZGIRL86]

Anyone can tell a person what they want to hear, I don't think that is defined as being mature telling someone what they want to hear

 

[Shuter]

Anyone can tell a person what they want to hear, I don't think that is defined as being mature telling someone what they want to hear

The art is making them believe you're sincere.

 

[Not-That-Bright]

I've seen some hot chicks before that i figured i'd have to like... romance to get with, but i've thought 'hey maybe their mums would be easy'.

 

[OZGIRL86]

The art is making them believe you're sincere.

why not just be sincere in the first place?

 

[thejosiekiller]

why not just be sincere in the first place?

because he worships the ladder theory

 

[Not-That-Bright]

maybe he worships the cock.

 

[Shuter]

why not just be sincere in the first place?

oh I am to a degree, others aren't.

 

[OZGIRL86]

you should be fully sincere, not only to a degree, anyway yeh not all people are sincere

 

[OZGIRL86]

because he worships the ladder theory

I havn't looked at the ladder theory yet

 

[thejosiekiller]

its ajoke and full of stereotypical crap about the reasons why all girls and guys act in a certain way towards each other

shuter just cant see its a joke