Ladies: do you care if your man goes to a strip club? (1 Viewer)

[withoutaface]

Because swallowing male cum and giving blow jobs has a different cultural connetation as appose to doing it to a female.

Now im going to feel like im repeating myself, but pornography is defined as the domination of one party over another.

In this case, males over females. When a blow job is given in this sexed up world, it is a mark of male domination and only contributes to the attempt of by males to define what consititutes female sexuality.

Im not saying that male and female cum tastes differently or whatever.

Im simply talking about the cultural/social significance of these sexual acts

But if the male is dominant when they're getting head why is the female not dominating when they're receiving? Also if you trust that your partner's not doing it to degrade you what's the problem?

PS Your cries of "but it's different when he does me!" qualify you as not a feminist but a feminazi (ie after equality+1)

 

[olchik]

I would let him go of course, it's his right to do whatever he wants but I wouldn't like it.

 

[Casmira]

*Sigh*

Thats why my bf is 28 and thats why i dont go out with young guys.

*Sigh* again

I mean I totally am your side in terms of how young guys are immature, but don't get on your high horse *sigh*'ing it really makes you seem stuck up

 

[mr_brightside]

When a blow job is given in this sexed up world, it is a mark of male domination and only contributes to the attempt of by males to define what consititutes female sexuality.

what the fuck is the matter with you?
Teeth hurt.
Now, tell me again. Who's in control?

 

[hello_world]

i dont care... it's not like u have to look at the girls there is other stuff to do like play pool and drink

as long as he aint getting any private shows or touching them

 

[Lennie]

Would be happy for him to go as long as he told me about it beforehand.

Why shouldn't the female body be appreciated? Haha I see it more as an artform :/

Maybe thats wrong... But I have enough confidence in myself to not get all antsy.

 

[+Po1ntDeXt3r+]

Would be happy for him to go as long as he told me about it beforehand.

Why shouldn't the female body be appreciated? Haha I see it more as an artform :/

Maybe thats wrong... But I have enough confidence in myself to not get all antsy.

what if he decided to compare his girl to her...? is tat too much?

i have.. *heard*.. some nasty things happen at strip clubs..

 

[minushuman]

Some bullshit about something or other. What a total lezzo.

*laughs*

You're getting used as easy, and easy to manipulate, fresh young pussy. Wow really does suck to be you right now. I'd confront your boyfriend about his intentions... I sincerely hope you weren't a virgin because you've just been totally played. I can't believe you'd be so submissive as to place yourself under the control of an older man (whether you realise this or not).

*laughs hysterically again*

 

[davin]

what if he decided to compare his girl to her...? is tat too much?

i have.. *heard*.. some nasty things happen at strip clubs..

if comparisons are made..... would you really want, on a long term basis, the girl anyone can see if they pay enough?

 

[AlleyCat]

id like to think that i am confident enouogh about myself to allow my boyfriend to frequent stripclubs, but in reality i am a very jealous person.

i think that porn, stripping and prostitution are all the same fundamentally, and while i dont think there is anything wrong with these things in society, and in fact know many people in these industries through charity work, i would be upset if i found out my partner had felt the need to look elsewhere for sexual satisfaction.

but i cant comment on other people's relationships, some people are very open and tolerant. im just not.

 

[UGFighter]

Most men will go to stip clubs at some point in time of their life, it's pretty much inevitable. Most men will go and NOT tell their partner if their partner isn't all that keen about it.

reminds me of a funny story when my mates and I went to a few strip joints in QLD... one of the strippers was all over one of my mates and when she finished work, she wanted to take him back home and fuck him, etc.. We realised what a stupid , trashy and fucked-up tart she was, so we started hitting her up to do bukake for $20/person and I think she was almost going to do it except one of us abused the fuck out of her, heh.

The next week back at home, my mate gets an message on his home phone, 'Hi, it's Destiny... I got your number off one of your friends because you wouldn't give it to me... next time you're up let me know so we can catch up for a drink or something.'

His girlfriend got the message before he did... he had some quick explaining to do!

 

[Lennie]

what if he decided to compare his girl to her...? is tat too much?

i have.. *heard*.. some nasty things happen at strip clubs..

Comparisons are inevitable in day to day life. Why should being in a strip club be any different in that regard?

If he couldnt handle the fact that maybe the stripper had a better ass than his girl, then thats a sign of an underlying problem, and they shouldn't be in a relationship :/

Is that what you meant?

 

[+Po1ntDeXt3r+]

Comparisons are inevitable in day to day life. Why should being in a strip club be any different in that regard?

If he couldnt handle the fact that maybe the stripper had a better ass than his girl, then thats a sign of an underlying problem, and they shouldn't be in a relationship :/

Is that what you meant?

yeah.. i just think its kinda inappropriate.. for the guy..

although everytime a girl has a male stripper i have really never heard great things about them..

 

[minushuman]

...so we started hitting her up to do bukake for $20/person

FUCKING RIGHT ON!!!!

You sir, are a champion.

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

i called my boy before and he told me he went to a massage parlour with his friend last night!!!

now id rather him go to a strip joint and get ass rubbed in his face, than some dirty bitch putting her hands all over his sexy body!! grrrrrr

lucky he was only joking
but his friend got on the fone and TRIED to make me believe they went..

 

[cataleptic]

I encouraged my pasy boyfriend to visit them a schoolies and get lapdances, etc.

Hell, they're just a bit of fun, he doesn't take it seriously, we've both watched porn, so why the hell shouldn't he see a bit of skin other than my ownm just for the sake of it?

It's all good. I'll be hitting up the lesbian bars when I'm 18 whether I get a partner's approval or not, I'm open with all that kinda crap.

 

[aj_number_10]

once my girlfriend was like ur not going to the stripclub n i was like listen bithc im going ok n u cant stop me
so i went

 

[SweetSeasons]

once my girlfriend was like ur not going to the stripclub n i was like listen bithc im going ok n u cant stop me
so i went

u talk to a 13 yr old like that?? no wonder u can only get 13 yr olds

 

[aj_number_10]

pfft
u wouldnt say no if i put one on u

 

[ur_inner_child]

when i was about 16 (fresh 15, so like... i was quite the youngen)
i cried when my bf went into a strip club.

it was a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuggge fight

now i dont quite frankly care.

same boyfriend tho.