What's wrong with being an 18 year old virgin? (2 Viewers)

Miss Successful

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What

have sex with whoever lol

the significance of the act is no different if it isn't your first time, it's still just sex, the only thing different will be the feelings you have for that person, and they will be there regardless

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haha okay that's valid but some agree and other's don't . That's where we differ in opinion ^^


how the fuck does this thread have so many replies

if you want to, do it. if you don't, don't. either way, don't tell other people/let them tell you that what you've/they've decided is wrong, because it's up to you and a completely personal thing. shit.
LOL how true. okay i ain't posting on this thread anymore. :] I've cleared up a few things in my head and gained a more broader understanding of the workings of humanity...*skips off to do an english essay which has been sadly neglected* :(
 

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If it's a long term relationship, then surely it means the two people involved are heading for marriage anyway? hmm if it were me, i'd just wait out the extra year or so, [i mean if you've survived this long without doing it -presumably] and then well the marriage should survive if you had a longterm relationship before it shouldn't it ? :)

Yea long term relationships are pretty much the same as marriage [if 'long' is like ...4yrs minimum imo]. I just don't want to leave room for regret later, that's all.
but it doesnt work like that. more factors than just the critera of being in a long term relationship applies to marriage, financial stability for example. its not like you would turn to your partner and go "oh, it's been 5 years, we may as well get married now"


i just think that if you have been together that long its not really going to make a difference when you are having sex whether you are married or not. you havent really argued that properly
 

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but it doesnt work like that. more factors than just the critera of being in a long term relationship applies to marriage, financial stability for example. its not like you would turn to your partner and go "oh, it's been 5 years, we may as well get married now"


i just think that if you have been together that long its not really going to make a difference when you are having sex whether you are married or not. you havent really argued that properly
hi bby post a pic plz
 
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and you're the one that always makes an embarrassingly useless attempt at a cutting remark about whatever i say, so i guess that makes us even
 

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sex is pretty amazing.

sometimes it's not, though, and that's ok.

because it's great, but it's not what i base my value as a human being on.
 

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Girls should stay virgins forever because their tits shoots lasers!

LAZERTITS NSFW/Safe as soft porn
 

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eh, we are living in the times where many young people are irresponsible, 16 and pregnant will quickly become 13 and pregnant... most of these kids should be keeping their legs closed
there was a trend in america when girls weren't wearing undies at school dances
the kids would crowd around each other with mobile phones to block the teachers from seeing them have sex
if you're gonna do it at least don't be stupid enough to leave condoms on the floor.
i don't really care for the wait until marriage reasoning but i respect people who don't give into the arbitrary pressure.
 

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Absolutely nothing. If you lose it beforehand, good for you, but I personally wouldn't want to risk pregnancy in my HSC year.

If it makes you feel any better, I got my first kiss 2 months before my 17th birthday lol
Ever heard of dong bags?
 

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eh, we are living in the times where many young people are irresponsible, 16 and pregnant will quickly become 13 and pregnant... most of these kids should be keeping their legs closed
there was a trend in america when girls weren't wearing undies at school dances
the kids would crowd around each other with mobile phones to block the teachers from seeing them have sex
if you're gonna do it at least don't be stupid enough to leave condoms on the floor.
i don't really care for the wait until marriage reasoning but i respect people who don't give into the arbitrary pressure.
It's already (sadly) beginning to happen. It's disgusting.
 

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Ever heard of dong bags?
they break.

why plan an age to lose your virginity by?

if you're in a relationship, and it feels right to you, and you're mature enough to handle the aftermath, then do it.

obviously sex in these circumstances shouldn't be condoned at an early age, like 13. because most 13 year olds have no idea what they want, or what they're deciding.

everyone is entitled to their values, as long as they don't try to force them on others. we are in our rights to voice these values, but keep judgements and disrespectful comments of opposing values or ideas a person may deem invalid, left unsaid.
 

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