Why are many teen girls afraid to have sex? (3 Viewers)

[sdcloud69]

all bitches are sluts deep down, some just don't know it yet.

 

[x.christina]

Well basically the fact is that if anything goes wrong, WE'RE THE ONES that have to deal with the pregnancy/abortion etc.

 

[XPac2]

Well i think they should be afraid cos teenage guys are dicks.

 

[x.christina]

Well i think they should be afraid cos teenage guys are dicks.

You would know, Chris? : P

Who left you preggers? jks

 

[XPac2]

lol NO! But its true, girls have more to wory aout with sex than guys do. The most we really worry about is wether or not itll burn next time we piss.

 

[Cookie182]

There is an objective answer. Evolutionary psychology explains it like this: (These 'fears' are not conscious- you are not aware of why these feelings occur, they occur within your subconscious)

Contraception has not always been around (last 60 yrs etc). For the last 100 000 years, having sex pretty much meant having a kid. If you fuck a guy who isn't committed to 'sticking around', your ability to survive was virtually zero (women pretty much needed men in those days- work/bring food etc). So from an anthropological perspective, women have evolved with this fear of sex- not the act in itself, but the fear of the guy not committing. I like to deem this "last minute resistance" (LMR). The way to combat it guys is to demonstrate from early on that you will be there for the girl basically, show that she occupies some of your thoughts- a simple "Hey I was thinking about you today...blah blah" over the course of your courtship (dating) period should do the trick. That's of course if you want to sleep around. Additionally, guys find it hard to imagine, but from a subconscious perspective, imagine sleeping with someone who could physically kill you? This sounds ridiculous, but men being much physically stronger can be a threat to a women's survival if he was to go crazy (this is more an evolved fear as opposed to today's society with laws etc).

Anyway, on the flip side guys fear approaching women (lets face it, even if your a "natural", most guys get that anxiety feeling before approaching a random attractive women). Why? This is an evolutionary fear as well. Back when we lived in tribes of 50-150 ppl, if you approached the wrong girl (as in one preselected by the tribal leader) you would be effectively killed or exiled- which meant, you would not go on to spread your genes or mate (you'd also never have sex again- a huge desire for all males). So, our emotional circuitry has once again evolved over this time period to give us a hardwired fear- one which although not as relevant today (with 6 billion ppl in the world, way less scarcity), it is still there in order to protect our survival.

 

[jiey2k]

tl;dr

but im assuming that was pro

 

[SylviaB]

Largely because society and religion has drummed into them since day 1 that sex is dirty and wrong.

 

[Will Shakespear]

tl;dr

but im assuming that was pro

short version: sperm is cheap, eggs & babies are expensive

 

[settle*precious]

short version: sperm is cheap, eggs & babies are expensive

basically.

 

[Sarah182]

I dunno if that statement is exactly true... More guys I know are virgins than chicks??
Guys just seem to think about it a lot more.

 

[x.christina]

Largely because society and religion has drummed into them since day 1 that sex is dirty and wrong.

I wanted a way to explain what I felt, and this is what I wanted to say haha
AGREED.

 

[boris]

I dunno if that statement is exactly true... More guys I know are virgins than chicks??
Guys just seem to think about it a lot more.

you associate with sluts

 

[Will Shakespear]

society doesn't rly have anything to do with it

 

[x.christina]

society doesn't rly have anything to do with it

Are you serious? Society has EVERYTHING to do with this.

 

[Will Shakespear]

Are you serious? Society has EVERYTHING to do with this.

not in the slightest

female choice has been around a few hundred million years longer than "TEH MEDIA", lol

 

[x.christina]

not in the slightest

female choice has been around a few hundred million years longer than "TEH MEDIA", lol

But society portrays teenage sex as something that is wrong, so it gets imprinted into your brain that its bad and dirty (whilst a teenager)

A few hundred million years ago the dinosaurs were fucking on the earth, not humans.

 

[boris]

ur just a slut what would u know

 

[Cookie182]

Will Shakespeare is correct, I already answered it above.

end thread.

 

[Will Shakespear]

so you think humans are the only species in which females are more particular about who they sleep with and males try to sleep with as many as possible?

lol, actually it's way older than the dinosaurs as well, it's been this way ever since 2 distinct types of gametes evolved... roughly a billion year ago