Why Do Guys Have To Make The 1st Move? (2 Viewers)
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this is total opposite 4 me...i always hav 2 make the first move....about 70% of guys ive been with im always making the first move, the other 30% make the first move..i always get stuck with the shy guys...but thats a good thing coz their beta than the 30% of the horny, inconsiderate, straight to the point fucksheads!
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I always make the first move! I find that if I want to be with them/let them know how I feel, I need to do it!
Is it just me or do guys put off making that move as looooooong as possible because of the apparent chance of rejection!?!
Is it just me or do guys put off making that move as looooooong as possible because of the apparent chance of rejection!?!
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i totally agree! im impatient so i usually make the first move...also because i want to let the guy know how i feel rather than it be uncomfortable when he tries to find out how i feel.
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kelboo said:I always make the first move! I find that if I want to be with them/let them know how I feel, I need to do it!
Is it just me or do guys put off making that move as looooooong as possible because of the apparent chance of rejection!?!
no i agree aswell...sum r really afraid of rejection! so they take ages just 2 see wat us girls r lik and if the chick puts interest into liking him and flirts
I'm glad alot of you girls are realizing this. The one thing guys fear is rejection, so alot of the time when guys don't seem to 'be into you', they may very well be.. but just afraid to make a move and risk such rejection. So sometimes it's up to you to make the first move!
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yeh thats why most of the time i do make the first move....i dnt hav any problem with it, but i just dnt lik guys complaining that they always hav 2 make the first move wen technically not all do
Yeah, I think it's best when both parties share the 'move initiation thing'.. but I think guys just like it when the girl makes the VERY first move. Then once they realize ya like them, they'll open up. This is especially true the hotter you are (I hate sounding superficial, but it's common sensical and intuitively correct IMO).. since they may think 'oh shit, that chicks way out of my league.. I have no chance.. I'll just go back to playing HALO 2' lmao
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lol good way of putting it lol