Should virginity be regarded as a virtue in modern society? (2 Viewers)
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*TRUE*: Are you afraid you'll get bored of each other? If not then what do you have to contend with but time? The more you experience of each others love, the more new things you can begin to experience, if you take your time, then maybe you'll miss out on the things at the other end of the timeline? Personally I think you're missing out, I mean... as special as our younger years were, would you really want to still be back learning the alphabet instead of reading great works?
But do whatever works for u
But do whatever works for u
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There is plenty of passion KwayeraKwayera said:
But we keep our boundaries - self control. Its ood to know he has it , that he isnt going to succumb to that when we are married and he is propositioned by someone when im not there.We will share ourselves like that when we have committed to marriage
No i dont think it would be anywhere near as good....my opinion.zimmerman8k said:
I dont want experience with anyone else , that is the point. All those years? im not sorry for 'missing out" for all those years, They have been wonderful! My life just keeps getting better & better=)
Captain Gh3y
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As long as we live in a patriarchal society, no contact between members of the opposite sex is possible without implying male dominanceKwayera said:
Kwayera
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Who says we're living in a patriarchial society?
And *TRUE* - don't you trust your boyfriend?
And *TRUE* - don't you trust your boyfriend?
scaredytiger
WWKD
oh ok.*TRUE* said:We are very affectionate!
Kissing is just something special to me personally.
We are great friends but very attracted to one another too.
We ARE in a relationship, very very very much so. very close.
it has been progressive
i dont know
i just cant imagine a relationship without those moments...
i spose its different for each of us, but i live for the snapshots. a kiss at sunrise in soft rain. looking at the stars on a beach and getting soaked by a wave coming in further than the others. that sort of thing.
you seem to want to control where those snapshots lie, have it all planned and perfect. which is fine, i just enjoy unpredictablity and spontanaeity.
Enteebee said:*TRUE*: Are you afraid you'll get bored of each other? If not then what do you have to contend with but time? The more you experience of each others love, the more new things you can begin to experience, if you take your time, then maybe you'll miss out on the things at the other end of the timeline? Personally I think you're missing out, I mean... as special as our younger years were, would you really want to still be back learning the alphabet instead of reading great works?
But do whatever works for u
Im not afraid of getting bored. There is so much to him. I learn more every day i think
I dont think ove missed a thing. A timeline is a good picture. All will come in time!And it has,
When i was young i used to wonder if anyone would ever love me , or want me. I just trusted and waited and my friend came and found me!
Captain Gh3y
Rhinorhondothackasaurus
Men still earn more than women on average, have more seats in parliament, are CEOS of all the biggest corporations...Kwayera said:Who says we're living in a patriarchial society?
Don't kid yourself sister, the glass ceiling is well intact
Kwayera
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That's a generational thing. Once our generation starts to be come CEOs, it won't be the case. I still don't think it's a patriarchal society.Captain Gh3y said:Men still earn more than women on average, have more seats in parliament, are CEOS of all the biggest corporations...
Don't kid yourself sister, the glass ceiling is well intact
yes i absolutely do trust him! but u dont trust someone cause they say , TRUST ME!Kwayera said:Who says we're living in a patriarchial society?
And *TRUE* - don't you trust your boyfriend?
u trust someone because u can see in their life that they ar characterised by integrity
Ok.. if you're not afraid of getting bored, why not just go out and experience it all now? I mean even once you've experienced those things there'll always be so much more right? Seems to me if you're not afraid of getting bored you'd just be fucking like rabbits and trying absolutely everything under the sun cause there'll always be something around the corner, if you spend all your time experiencing the earlier aspects of your endlessly exciting relationship surely you're taking time away from the future possibilities...*TRUE* said:
Im not afraid of getting bored. There is so much to him. I learn more every day i think
I dont think ove missed a thing. A timeline is a good picture. All will come in time!And it has,
When i was young i used to wonder if anyone would ever love me , or want me. I just trusted and waited and my friend came and found me!
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scaredytiger
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then do you need a piece of paper to authenticate it? or is it personal choice?*TRUE* said:
Kwayera
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But you also said "There is plenty of passion Kwayera But we keep our boundaries - self control. Its ood to know he has it , that he isnt going to succumb to that when we are married and he is propositioned by someone when im not there."*TRUE* said:
Sounds like you don't trust him at all. Is that it?
You're afraid to "give yourself to him" in case he throws it back in your face later?
guruj790
New Member
you idiot. have you thought about how he feels?*TRUE* said:Thanks!
No one ever says that. Its always , "you idiot"
one word: selfish. seriously. not all guys want to just get in bed and fuck, maybe you should at least do him the privelege of a kiss. btw, he's boning somebody behind your back, i'd bet my arm on it.
Captain Gh3y
Rhinorhondothackasaurus
Our generation are too busy partying and doing that new 'ice' drug to run companies. Plus they don't have the work ethic to do it. Once the older, wiser, more conservative, harder working, sensible generations who actually have rules and order and values and morals in their lives retire, the world will be in chaos. There'll be cars burning in every streets and "Cory"s holding parties in every house.Kwayera said:
Also, the most oppressive thing the patriarchy did was convince womyn it doesn't exist.