What's the best way to tell someone you like them?? (1 Viewer)

[s0k0y0e0]

Thanks!

And thanks guys for ALL your thoughts! Ooooh tomorrow!

 

[sunjet]

just do it, you have nothing to lose (i think)

 

[jumb]

okay; well I hope hope hope I can build up enough courage; cause I'm intending to tell him tomorrow! :uhhuh:

I don't think you should do it. I think there's more subtle ways of making a guy feel attraction to you. As soon as you tell the guy you like him, he will freak, guys hate commitment. You should go on dates, get with him a few times, tease him alot, and then talk about a relationship. You're taking it way too fast in my opinion.

 

[Tulipa]

I don't think you should do it. I think there's more subtle ways of making a guy feel attraction to you. As soon as you tell the guy you like him, he will freak, guys hate commitment. You should go on dates, get with him a few times, tease him alot, and then talk about a relationship. You're taking it way too fast in my opinion.

there is no good way to tell a guy.

sorry pinkpixie but there just isn't, unless he really really really feels the same way and is too shy to do anything about it. then telling him is just peachy.

and for once, i actually agree with jumb (i apologise in advance to every girl on bos that i am betraying)

 

[Casmira]

careful it doesnt ruin your relationship i told a girl i liked her and shes been my friend for a few years,i wasnt sure how she felt but i let it out, while she was like thanks for telling me, i felt really uncomfortable talking to her and i still do, she wasnt really effected though

but i guess just ask the guy to the movies or something?

 

[s0k0y0e0]

Cool Thanks guys; yeah I agree with u's!

I really don't want to ruin our friendship!

We've been to movies a few times, and used to play tennis together! We flirt with eachother and I dunno....I'll see what happens I reckon! :uhhuh:

I DON'T want to rush anything!

So again thanks heaps for all your thoughts, it helps running through my thoughts with others!

 

[jumb]

Cool Thanks guys; yeah I agree with u's!

I really don't want to ruin our friendship!

We've been to movies a few times, and used to play tennis together! We flirt with eachother and I dunno....I'll see what happens I reckon! :uhhuh:

I DON'T want to rush anything!

So again thanks heaps for all your thoughts, it helps running through my thoughts with others!

It has to be more then flirting. Mixed messages suck (sometimes).

 

[s0k0y0e0]

Yeah it is, like we have good discussions and like give off vibes that we like eachother..................ahhhhhhhhh it's so confusing!

 

[jumb]

Yeah it is, like we have good discussions and like give off vibes that we like eachother..................ahhhhhhhhh it's so confusing!

You think having "good discussions" is how you pick up guys? You know nothing.

 

[s0k0y0e0]

well, i'm sorry, but I DO NOT sleep around, or give out; just to pick up some random...

 

[jumb]

well, i'm sorry, but I DO NOT sleep around, or give out; just to pick up some random...

You idiot, I did NOT say to sleep with him, you want to pick him up and you said he's not some random. Stop being defensive when I'm pointing out the obvious. Ignorance isn't going to get you a boyfriend.

 

[Eagles]

Action speaks louder than words

 

[*~Dazed~*]

Action speaks louder than words

not always.

 

[im an idiot]

Action speaks louder than words

should we punch them?

 

[shady_03]

Maybe dont say it outright... kinda allure to it thru things u say/do, maybe theyll get the hint

 

[nicko88]

Well, whatever you do, just go up to this person and say how you feel. Honesty in the key. Just don't wait for him to finally come around and say that he likes you - that can take a LOOOOOOOOOOOONG time...trust me...

 

[Eagles]

should we punch them?

lol, no. But once you do say it, it kills the tension. (and also hands over control.)

edit: Hold the phone. Who's telling who here? If its not the guy sayin it, then it should be alright...

 

[gna]

nice shoes....

 

[niteshade1312]

But why do guys take a long time? I don't havea problem with telling guys I like them, even though everyone gets their share of rejections. I don't see why it's so hard, unless. you realy like the person a lot!

 

[steph@nie]

Maybe dont say it outright... kinda allure to it thru things u say/do, maybe theyll get the hint

I think you mean allude to.

and just tell him for fucks sake.