What's the best way to tell someone you like them?? (1 Viewer)
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I don't think you should do it. I think there's more subtle ways of making a guy feel attraction to you. As soon as you tell the guy you like him, he will freak, guys hate commitment. You should go on dates, get with him a few times, tease him alot, and then talk about a relationship. You're taking it way too fast in my opinion.PiNkPiXiE said:okay; well I hope hope hope I can build up enough courage; cause I'm intending to tell him tomorrow! :uhhuh:
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there is no good way to tell a guy.jumb said:
sorry pinkpixie but there just isn't, unless he really really really feels the same way and is too shy to do anything about it. then telling him is just peachy.
and for once, i actually agree with jumb (i apologise in advance to every girl on bos that i am betraying)
careful it doesnt ruin your relationship i told a girl i liked her and shes been my friend for a few years,i wasnt sure how she felt but i let it out, while she was like thanks for telling me, i felt really uncomfortable talking to her and i still do, she wasnt really effected though
but i guess just ask the guy to the movies or something?
but i guess just ask the guy to the movies or something?
Cool Thanks guys; yeah I agree with u's!
I really don't want to ruin our friendship!
We've been to movies a few times, and used to play tennis together! We flirt with eachother and I dunno....I'll see what happens I reckon! :uhhuh:
I DON'T want to rush anything!
So again thanks heaps for all your thoughts, it helps running through my thoughts with others!
I really don't want to ruin our friendship!
We've been to movies a few times, and used to play tennis together! We flirt with eachother and I dunno....I'll see what happens I reckon! :uhhuh:
I DON'T want to rush anything!
So again thanks heaps for all your thoughts, it helps running through my thoughts with others!
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It has to be more then flirting. Mixed messages suck (sometimes).PiNkPiXiE said:Cool Thanks guys; yeah I agree with u's!
I really don't want to ruin our friendship!
We've been to movies a few times, and used to play tennis together! We flirt with eachother and I dunno....I'll see what happens I reckon! :uhhuh:
I DON'T want to rush anything!
So again thanks heaps for all your thoughts, it helps running through my thoughts with others!
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You think having "good discussions" is how you pick up guys? You know nothing.PiNkPiXiE said:Yeah it is, like we have good discussions and like give off vibes that we like eachother..................ahhhhhhhhh it's so confusing!
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You idiot, I did NOT say to sleep with him, you want to pick him up and you said he's not some random. Stop being defensive when I'm pointing out the obvious. Ignorance isn't going to get you a boyfriend.PiNkPiXiE said:well, i'm sorry, but I DO NOT sleep around, or give out; just to pick up some random...
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should we punch them?Eagles said:
lol, no. But once you do say it, it kills the tension. (and also hands over control.)im an idiot said:
edit: Hold the phone. Who's telling who here? If its not the guy sayin it, then it should be alright...
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But why do guys take a long time? I don't havea problem with telling guys I like them, even though everyone gets their share of rejections. I don't see why it's so hard, unless. you realy like the person a lot!
