kidokkyo
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That's fair enough if you haven't encountered the notion of Korean males being cultural conservative. But I know I'm not alone in thinking it. There's a Korean bestseller-author, Nam In-sook 남인숙 who writes for Korean women in their 20s and 30s and she explains the cultural dynamics pretty well. Possibly you are not so aware of it because you are a Korean male yourself? And that would make plenty of sense.I'm not particularly familiar with why you think Korean males are more likely to hold on to historical Korean cultural values, I've never encountered it, or maybe rarely. Not too sure lol haha.
Ignore Lonelywolf, he's an idiot, he has no idea on how brilliant the Korean culture is. And don't get me wrong, I love the Australian culture much much more.
To your last point. Well from a Korean guy's perspective and also alot of people around me who has experienced both the Banana and Fob culture significantly throughout out lives, mainly guys like the FOB culture because the girls are more well dressed or fashionable (fob fashion like k-pop style), have a more prettier/cuter face (you know that typical Korean-fob look) and there is alot other stuff. This knowledge is from personal experience.
I'm not sure how the banana culture/fob culture has benefits, shouldn't matter regardless of gender, or I don't really understand what point your making. But i find these days, Koreans all in general love the fob culture well from my social experience. Banana culture is pretty dead now or non existent.
Also as an Korean Australian, we should also have some idea of the Korean culture or experience(Meaning knowing the language, eating the food and etc) well that's my belief. However it should always come second. First priority is always the Australian culture which alot of Koreans tend to forget and go around in their own little community.
I'm interested to know why you love the Australian culture still more than the Korean culture? (I hold a similar position, I think.) Hahaha so from your personal experience, fob girls are prettier? I have no riposte, LOL.
Confucian culture is male-centric. And Korean culture is still highly influenced by Confucian ethics. And not that gender equality in Australia or any other part of the West is perfect, but it's still a whole lot better than in Korea. And that is partly to do with the economy, but also partly to do with cultural attitudes.
Banana culture is dead/non-existent? WHERE? (Please do answer this even if you ignore the rest of this post.)
Well yeah. Ideally we would have an awareness of both our heritage and our home culture. And by home culture I mean Australian culture, because this is where Korean Australians live.