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lourai*87 said:
which, the good looking guy or the good looking girl?

I once had a friend tell me that he didnt like me anymore in "that way" cos he didnt want to get in my pants anmore. Points for honsety i suppose.
He was probably saying it to get in your pants, like reverse psychology.
 

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Yer guys and gals can be friends. Just dont let anyone else tell you otherwise. Im friends with heaps of guys and im really close with one. We are only mates of course. Everyone else thought otherwise, but we knew that we were only mates. If people cant except that a guy and gal cant be close with sleeping with each other than thats their problem. Not yours.
 

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*b*e*c*c*a* said:
Yer guys and gals can be friends. Just dont let anyone else tell you otherwise. Im friends with heaps of guys and im really close with one. We are only mates of course. Everyone else thought otherwise, but we knew that we were only mates. If people cant except that a guy and gal cant be close with sleeping with each other than thats their problem. Not yours.
i think that when a girl and a guy are close friends, but only friends, there will always be a time when they're attracted to each other and are thinking of being more than what they are. you can't avoid it.
 

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thats every day, there is best friends without sex and best friends with sex.
 

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Dreamerish*~ said:
i think that when a girl and a guy are close friends, but only friends, there will always be a time when they're attracted to each other and are thinking of being more than what they are. you can't avoid it.
Nor do you want to avoid it.
 

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Dreamerish*~ said:
i think that when a girl and a guy are close friends, but only friends, there will always be a time when they're attracted to each other and are thinking of being more than what they are. you can't avoid it.
I agree with you there
 
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Dreamerish*~ said:
i think that when a girl and a guy are close friends, but only friends, there will always be a time when they're attracted to each other and are thinking of being more than what they are. you can't avoid it.
that's true. and completely normal too.
 

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Dreamerish*~ said:
i think that when a girl and a guy are close friends, but only friends, there will always be a time when they're attracted to each other and are thinking of being more than what they are. you can't avoid it.
You're right on the money. On the weekend I stupidly hooked up with a friend who also happens to be my best mates ex. She jumped me though :)
 

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Yeah dreamerish is rite... it always happens (unless if one is totally ugly and theres absolutely no attraction lol)
 

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shady_03 said:
Yeah dreamerish is rite... it always happens (unless if one is totally ugly and theres absolutely no attraction lol)
no it can still happen then... my best friend is uhhh... far from good looking, but i like his personality.
 

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tomorrows_angel said:
no it can still happen then... my best friend is uhhh... far from good looking, but i like his personality.
is that enuf for u 2 go out with him? i think there has 2 be some sort of physical attraction
 

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shady_03 said:
is that enuf for u 2 go out with him? i think there has 2 be some sort of physical attraction
no, i wouldnt' go out with him, even though i know we'd be great together.
but that doesn't mean i haven't been attracted to him because of his personality.
 

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tomorrows_angel said:
no it can still happen then... my best friend is uhhh... far from good looking, but i like his personality.
Well, atleast your admit that you're shallow.
 

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tomorrows_angel said:
no, i wouldnt' go out with him, even though i know we'd be great together.
but that doesn't mean i haven't been attracted to him because of his personality.
Exactly my point.....
 

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shady_03 said:
Exactly my point.....
but the whole point is that friends can't be freinds without there being something more. you said unless one of them was really ugly. I'm saying that the attraction is still there. and that's definitely not the only reason i wouldn't go out with him.
 

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