Girls and Guys as friends... (2 Viewers)

[Tulipa]

i'm debating the sarcasm of that post considering you repped me but it just seems sarcastic....

 

[tempco]

everything jumb says sounds sarcastic.

 

[jumb]

i'm debating the sarcasm of that post considering you repped me but it just seems sarcastic....

I wouldn't have repped you if I thought you were being a dickhead.

 

[Tulipa]

yay then....

look if being "deep, wise and very mature" is being cynical about relationships and for seeing the blatant games people play then yeah i am.

 

[jumb]

yay then....

look if being "deep, wise and very mature" is being cynical about relationships and for seeing the blatant games people play then yeah i am.

I think I'm the same. I think I've lost a friend from telling her over msn that she's a dickhead in realtionships. Serves her right for telling me she truly loves a guy, who doesn't like her.

You can't fucking love someone like that, you can like them, but unless you're going out with them and they reciprocate the feeling, you're just a hormone filled, insecure teenager.

 

[niteshade1312]

I think I'm the same. I think I've lost a friend from telling her over msn that she's a dickhead in realtionships. Serves her right for telling me she truly loves a guy, who doesn't like her.

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But what right do you have to think that he doesn't like her. Maybe she's telling you because she trusts you and wants to share this with you. Then again maybe shes telling you she 'loves' him and doesn't actually LOVE him..

 

[Tulipa]

look for all those people who think they're in love as a teenage? i fuckin hate them. yeah if it even exists, as if you could really be mature and experienced enough to have it when you're 16, 17, 18 years old.

it doesn't make sense.

like them yeah but even then i think people just like the idea of a relationship, of the way it makes them feel. not necessarily the other person.

 

[jumb]

But what right do you have to think that he doesn't like her.

I think I got that idea from when she said "but he doesn't like me".

 

[tempco]

look for all those people who think they're in love as a teenage? i fuckin hate them. yeah if it even exists, as if you could really be mature and experienced enough to have it when you're 16, 17, 18 years old.

that's so true.

 

[jumb]

look for all those people who think they're in love as a teenage? i fuckin hate them. yeah if it even exists, as if you could really be mature and experienced enough to have it when you're 16, 17, 18 years old.

it doesn't make sense.

like them yeah but even then i think people just like the idea of a relationship, of the way it makes them feel. not necessarily the other person.

I can't rep you again.

 

[Tulipa]

meh thats ok

i'm just gettin fired up

i may be in a relationship but i hate the way people talk them up. its just for a semblance of comfort and because i like the way he makes me feel

 

[jumb]

meh thats ok

i'm just gettin fired up

i may be in a relationship but i hate the way people talk them up. its just for a semblance of comfort and because i like the way he makes me feel

It's the ignorance which pisses me off. They say they know their feelings and con control themselves, when in reality they can't.

 

[lourai*87]

I will take back my comment about you being so cynical, jumb. Only because what you have since said i somewhat agree with - about not possibly being able to know what love is at this point in life, and yes the talking up of a relationship.

Sure, we may have genuine feelings for people, care deeply for them and what-not, but this doesnt make it love. Anyhow.

 

[niteshade1312]

If my memory serves me correctly, ages doesn't really serve a purpose in working out whether someone can be in love or not. I dont think that by justifying that "you can't be in love at 16,17,18" is any better off than saying "You must be a certain age to be in love and to understand it".

I do agree that being in your teens may cause some misunderstandings in one's feelings, but you cant totally dismiss it.

To me Tulipa, your a little to sour, and maybe you dont understand love is because you are that way

 

[jumb]

I will take back my comment about you being so cynical, jumb. Only because what you have since said i somewhat agree with - about not possibly being able to know what love is at this point in life, and yes the talking up of a relationship.

Sure, we may have genuine feelings for people, care deeply for them and what-not, but this doesnt make it love. Anyhow.

Thanks honey, you're cool again.

If my memory serves me correctly, ages doesn't really serve a purpose in working out whether someone can be in love or not. I dont think that by justifying that "you can't be in love at 16,17,18" is any better off than saying "You must be a certain age to be in love and to understand it".

I do agree that being in your teens may cause some misunderstandings in one's feelings, but you cant totally dismiss it.

To me Tulipa, your a little to sour, and maybe you dont understand love is because you are that way

I think you can totally dismiss it there are too many horemones and not enough experience in your body around this age. I also don't think Tulipa is sour, I think she is realistic.

 

[niteshade1312]

We are all entitled to our own opinions, so instead of shooting others down, just listen

 

[jumb]

We are all entitled to our own opinions, so instead of shooting others down, just listen

Exactly, you're entitled to getting my opinion when I feel that you're wrong. I'm not telling you to like it.

 

[lourai*87]

Thanks honey, you're cool again.

Yay -- wait, i was cool before? Amazing.

Another thing, is so many people confuse love for lust, they really do. People classify love as "i have never felt like this before". Maybe they have just suddenly become ever-so-much more sexually frustrated.

HAving said that, i still dont think every guy thinks of sexing his female friend.

 

[thejosiekiller]

HAving said that, i still dont think every guy thinks of sexing his female friend.

only the good looking ones

 

[lourai*87]

only the good looking ones

which, the good looking guy or the good looking girl?

I once had a friend tell me that he didnt like me anymore in "that way" cos he didnt want to get in my pants anmore. Points for honsety i suppose.